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I don't get why high fat foods are lumped in here. I've started avoiding all the others you mentioned, and my reflux has stopped, but I'm on a ketogenic diet that's very high in fat.
Some foods loosen the sphincter making it easier to get reflux. Like eating a slice of pepperoni pizza. My dietitian said each individual is different so you need to determine what works or doesn't works for you.
Change one thing for two weeks, and see if it gets better or worse.
You can fix a surprisingly wide range of problems by changing your diet in a slow, methodical way.