Isn't this phenomenon getting worse now that responsive design is in vogue? We've collectively decided to shoehorn a website designed for the connectivity and speed of a desktop browser into a lower powered device with slower/spotty connectivity. Genuinely curious: Why is this better than a mobile-friendly site designed specifically with the constraints of a mobile device in mind?
Also, if you care about page and weight and optimization, your site will be light everywhere, and the criticism of shoehorning a big bloated desktop site into a phone won't apply. This is not that difficult to achieve.