Online Cheating Site AshleyMadison Hacked

Post by KingMob » Thu, Jul 23, 2015, 8:40 PM UTC

unchocked wrote: post #325

KingMob wrote: post #206

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But people in open relationships have no need to use a site based on cheating. They just use OkCupid, which is fairly poly-friendly. Despite what you said, Ashley Madison doesn't facilitate relations between "consenting" adults, because in an affair, 1 or 2 people didn't consent: the spouses being cheated on.

Ashley Madison facilitated relations between consenting adults. Full stop. The jilted spouses had nothing to do with it. The jilted spouses weren't involved in the sex. Betrayal only occurred within a personal relationship, and the resolution of betrayal can only be handled within that relationship. For an Internet vigilante mob to throw what is entirely a private matter into a public light is irresponsible in the ex…

Post by unchocked » Thu, Jul 23, 2015, 9:56 PM UTC

Nadya wrote: post #326

unchocked wrote: post #325

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Ashley Madison facilitated relations between consenting adults. Full stop. The jilted spouses had nothing to do with it. The jilted spouses weren't involved in the sex. Betrayal only occurred within a personal relationship, and the resolution of betrayal can only be handled within that relationship. For an Internet vigilante mob to throw what is entirely a private matter into a public light is irresponsible in the ex…

>Betrayal only occurred within a personal relationship I'm not sure about you, but I wouldn't test my luck with expecting a previously unfaithful partner to suddenly be faithful with me if they have a track record of unfaithfulness. I have more personal value in knowing if someone is unfaithful than if they are an RSO - and yet being an RSO is made public knowledge.