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What I extract from your reply is what I am actively trying to teach myself: DON'T. TAKE. ANYTHING. PERSONALLY. Yeah? BTW I am not exactly young -- 40 y/o with 18 years of professional experience (not claiming anything about quality). I was just objecting to your general premise that if somebody isn't snatched immediately then they must be mediocre because I've witnessed programmers times better than me (whose sole e…
> you are very likely correct that it's a numbers game On the surface it's numbers game. But 2/3rds of getting hired is a confidence game. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confidence_trick See also https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affinity_fraud Some programmers are really good at what they do but they just suck at playing the game. Or more likely they suck at it worse than the average hiring manager.
As for confidence, I should learn to fake it already I guess. I am a realistic down to earth guy who doesn't deny when he doesn't know something -- nobody can know everything. But that's likely not the point; more likely it's about projecting an image of "nothing can give me a true pause"?