Earlier quoted context omitted.
Because Maven doesn't require a background daemon eating 2GB of memory to be fast and IDEs can actually provide code completion and documentation while typing. Android is the only reason to have to put up with Gradle.
Gradle 5 lets you write the build scripts in Kotlin, which is supposed to address the code completion issue. (And the continuous build mode is a nice feature!) But, yes, is does use a lot of memory.
Eclipse and Netbeans compile on file save, can't get more continuous than that.