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This comment seems right on. Women calling men under 6ft children on social media. Lesbians shaming men for being short or weaker than them. Of course the gate is rising
Yes. Those women are, in fact, supporting a culture of toxic masculinity. I'm not sure what you're trying to prove though. It seems like whataboutism
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Extreme "pranks"? Hazing culture? Omerta? Gang culture? Wolf of Wall Street / Boiler Room culture?The thin blue line? Church scandals? Basically every domestic terrorist group in history? Four common patterns * Recruitment techniques based around achieving worth by emulating some "alpha" male, usually physical and financial, sometimes spiritual * Approval associated with risk taking behavior. Binge drinking, criminal…
I can come up with just as many harmful actions perpetuated by women and yet we don't have "toxic femininity". Thats the key difference. This line is complete trash: "recruiting him to do something he has no interest in doing otherwise". This is probably the greatest example of the lefts insanity nowadays. How do you know he isn't interested? You know nothing about my family but you assume and then push for policy us…
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#323“Only women, children, and dogs are loved unconditionally” ~ Chris Rock Lots of yakking it up about how sad men are but it's all so disingenuous. My experience leads to me to believe that the moment a man asks for help is the moment he has lost the respect of his peers and, should he be so lucky, his female partner. Evolutionarily, men are disposable, and the workplaces and dating arenas we must inhabit reinforce it…
> they care far more about what you could provide than how you feel. This is real, it does happen. But for the sake of anyone reading this, please be aware. There are plenty of women who are not like this . Finding them can feel overwhelming, but when you land the right one, it makes life so much better . I'm kidding, but only slightly, when I say this: I think the best advice for young men is to skip the dating scen…
until then, i would very much agree with you.
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I agree with "tough it up" to a large degree. However, the funny thing about people like you is you would never say "though it up" to a woman yet you would claim "women and men are equal" disingenuous
I literally have said that to a woman who was having a tough time her sr. year of high school with catty girls in her grade. There was no avoiding them, the behavior didn't rise to the level the school was going to do anything, and she wasn't in a position to transfer.
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There's more to that quote if you click through to the source. Before it was this: “I want everybody who works hard and plays fair to prosper," Rowe said. "I want everybody to be able to support themselves. But if you just pull the money out of midair you're going to create other problems.” “There is a ladder of success that people climb,” he continued. “Some of those jobs that are out there for seven, eight, nine do…
Given that the minimum wage was last raised in 2009, and even until then was always raised in arrears, I'd argue more that it's irresponsible of business owners to not be saving for an expected increase at some point in the near future (hopefully). It's not "pulling money out of midair" - these employers have been able to effectively "underpay" employees since then. > Some of those jobs that are out there for seven,…
jobs that are not meant to be livable should never be fulltime.
people stuck in a fulltime non-livable job don't have the time or resources to upgrade.
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#326Richard Reeves is originally from the left, and there is a podcast interview of him by Ezra Klein (titled "the boys are not alright"). In the interview he describes how he was drawn to feminism and looking at gender inequality, and by looking at the data became convinced that boys and men were a neglected cause. He was then frustrated as other researchers and policy people had no interest in that form of inequality.…
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> When all the men got together and voted for women to also have the vote, that was toxic masculinity at work. (this is a joke, but also not really. Women shifting the political map towards larger government and more socialism seems to be the root of most of our current problems. This seems like a really flawed and backwards take. What evidence do you have that supports your incredibly vague statement that women’s ab…
The claim was that big government was the root of most of our current problems and women in turn tend to vote for bigger government (and socialism but I used the lower case s on socialism which does not mean the Socialist party, it means a diverse group of potential policies that are all characterized by some group that isn't an individual and is usually the government owning some subset of assets and providing some…
>When all the men got together and voted for women to also have the vote, that was toxic masculinity at work. (this is a joke, but also not really. Women shifting the political map towards larger government and more socialism seems to be the root of most of our current problems.
Not sure how your statements (and “joke”)above and my statement below are all that much different. Ultimately you’re saying that women gaining the right vote led to the “issues” we have today. What issues? You don’t really say.
>What evidence do you have that supports your incredibly vague statement that women's ability to vote is "the root of most of our current problems.'
It’s not exactly a wonder why women might prefer socialist policies. Women couldn’t even open their own bank account until 1974 (1964 in Canada). If someone’s only recourse from a bad situation is to rely on the state, then socialist policies are going to look all that more appealing.
But that’s even if the premise is true that Canada (or the US for that matter), is being ruined by socialist policy. And I’m sure many would debate you on that.
I can tell you from experience from living large portions of my life in both the US and Canada, having access to universal healthcare is a net benefit.
>You see the above in the USA but you also see it in my home country of Canada, most recently with the current oaf running things federally, who has been kept in power by women voters not changing their vote when it became obvious he was doing likely criminal things while pursuing a suicidal spending platform at home and making us the laughing stock of the world stage with his antics.
>Anyways, this is not to say women shouldn't have the vote, they very clearly should have the vote. My original post was mostly about how we integrate the clearly correct idea that women should be able to vote with the clearly correct idea that their voting patterns are causing a lot of our current problems. I think the actual correct solution is some other system of limiting suffrage to only those who clearly have long term skin in the game, as to what that would look like I am not certain.
You seem to me a bit biased here. You use the term correct a lot here, but just because this position is you’re opinion does not in fact make it “correct.”
>It could take the form of limiting voting to citizens who currently have at least 50 % custody/responsibility for a child of theirs or have X number of years of at least 50% custody/responsibility for a child of their under their belts. Or perhaps requiring citizens to post an income adjust long term bond to vote and have that bond be the first risk of loss if the government runs a deficit of a certain amount for more than 1 year.The challenge with limiting suffrage is having the rule be simple enough that gaming it is very difficult, while being strong enough to actually cut out enough of the people with no incentive to think long term about the country that they can't drive us into bureaucratic ruin.
You are advocating that only parents and rich people should be allowed to vote. Believe it or not, you can, in fact be poor and childless and still care about the future of your country. This scheme would essentially cut out the voices of young people, arguably the people with the most skin in the game in regards to the future.
Your bond scheme would likely result in people (even those who have the means) to not bother with voting. Or the government cutting spending, even when it’s needed.
Do you have to pay every time you vote, in this pay-to-vote scheme of yours? What if the party you voted for loses, do you still have to give up your bond if the other party runs a deficit? What if every party no matter who you vote for runs a deficit? What’s to keep the parties accountable if the citizens are now solely responsible to fund any deficit with their forgone bond? What if every party, no matter who you vote for, runs a deficit? I mean, most governments do run a deficit regardless of the party. The last time the US ran a surplus was in 2001 and since then there have been an equal amount of Republican and Democrat presidents (with the Republicans arguably having more representation in Congress since then). The liberals in Canada had a pretty decent surplus before they lost the election in 2006 and the deficit ballooned massively under the Conservative Harper Government and only until 2018 has Canada seen a surplus, (this year is on track for a surplus as well). So then, would every American lose money every time they vote? Would Canadian conservatives lose more money than everyone else when they vote? Regardless of who they vote for, the citizens are the only losers in this scenario.
So either only rich people vote. Even price adjusted, people who don’t have a lot of money don’t have the luxury of putting “voting” money aside to just sit there waiting to lose it. And if rich people end up losing money enough times, I’m sure they’ll stop bothering to vote as well and instead sink their money into lobbying and back room dealing (even more so).
Or the government cuts spending to save their base from being financially penalized, even if it’s spending the country needs to maintain itself (and even if you might not agree that people need access to healthcare, we still need roads and infrastructure to run as a functioning society).
I highly doubt this would work in a direct democracy but it will absolutely not work in a representative democracy.
So whether you posit that only the rich and people with children (i.e. older) should be allowed to vote or that women can’t be trusted with their vote— either way they are both bad takes, and pretty antithetical to democracy.