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It's weird because I've had the BEST experience with apple in terms of shared experiences. I go to share audio on my iphone, then I share with my wifes airpods. Seems to work fine.
Everyone is different, I suppose. A shared TV watching experience where we're both plugged into our own isolated audio and can't hear each other talk would be an awful experience for me.
That's what transparency mode is for. You can hear each other perfectly.
You don't need noise cancellation as much when you're at home. It's more for the subway, planes, etc.