I only realized that dutch people are handful communicators when moving abroad. Apparently I do it unconsciously all the time. For example we gesture when something tastes good and I don't even say "tastes good" out loud i just wave my hand next to my cheek. But quickly learnt that people think you're crazy in the head instead of complimenting the chef. https://youtube.com/shorts/5a9Md32gSQg?is=fJ9BYQEt-CpEUE-g
Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
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Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#32often when I discuss very abstract complicated subjects I use hand gestures to "place" the interlocking concepts under discussion at different positions in front of me while talking, and as I talk I will then refer to these "virtual objects" via gestures as a way of referring back to the previous point where they were brought in and "positioned" in the discussion.
That's a thing in sign languages like ASL. You can establish a person, object, idea, timeline, etc. at a location in signing space, then refer back to it later by pointing. Sort of like spatial pronouns. Hearing people do a looser version too. I constantly find myself putting abstract ideas "over here" and "over there", then gesturing back at those virtual objects later in the conversation. Basically: pointing as pro…
Of course spoken language also has multiple channels (e.g. tone and sound) but they still lack the spatial aspect.
Apparently, people who pick up sign language later in life commonly typically make what is known as a "split verb error", where they structure their signs sequentially like vocal languages when they should do those things simultaneously.
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
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#34It was drilled into me since childhood that speaking with your hands is lacking "class". On a conscious level, I know not to judge people by something as superficial, but on subconscious level, if someone is swinging their hands in the air while talking to me: I don't want to talk to them. It's the same with being loud, or using stop words etc. I haven't been to Italy, but this was a huge deal for me living in Israel…
I do not mind gesturing itself done by other people, but I’ve found that it correlates a lot with violating my personal space. A lot of gesturing ends up being done right in front of my face, or just too close to my body in general. And that annoys me and makes me lose respect for the person doing that.
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#35I looked like I was trying to sell Guybrush Threepwood a sinking ship... .
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#36As a Sicilian and university computer science lecturer, I can say that hand gestures are my primary way of communicating concepts. So much so that the old joke holds true. How do you stop an Italian from talking? Tell them to sit on their hands.
Of course there will be a noticeable increase in gesticulation in an angry southern Italian person compared to a mild-mannered Englishman droning about philosophy.
Perhaps the difference lies not in the amount of gesturing, but in the heightened emotions of us southern Europeans.
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#37There's a hypothesis that sign language evolved before vocal languages, and that the latter "took over" as the default because it's energetically much more efficient. There's lots of circumstantial evidence but of course it's impossible to ever conclusively prove. This feels like another data point in favor of it.
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#38It was drilled into me since childhood that speaking with your hands is lacking "class". On a conscious level, I know not to judge people by something as superficial, but on subconscious level, if someone is swinging their hands in the air while talking to me: I don't want to talk to them. It's the same with being loud, or using stop words etc. I haven't been to Italy, but this was a huge deal for me living in Israel…
I lived in Israel my whole life and I don't remember ever encountering the notion that 'speaking with your hands is lacking "class"' or that ' It's generally seen as "proper" to not use your hands.'. I just looked and easily found two videos with Israel's Prime Minister where he used hand gestures while talking.
> In the military, especially in basic training, that would probably send you doing pushups.
No, I don't think so, why would it?
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#39Must be true. I have seen Dutch and Italian parents teaching their kids valuable social concepts with the exact same swift motion of an open hand.
Re: Italians and Dutch share the same gestural instinct for teaching
#40I only realized that dutch people are handful communicators when moving abroad. Apparently I do it unconsciously all the time. For example we gesture when something tastes good and I don't even say "tastes good" out loud i just wave my hand next to my cheek. But quickly learnt that people think you're crazy in the head instead of complimenting the chef. https://youtube.com/shorts/5a9Md32gSQg?is=fJ9BYQEt-CpEUE-g