Is it a problem? People don't need to be having sex. As long as people are happy.
Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows
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#22They buried the lede here. > Sexual activity was largely unchanged among unmarried women, along with no notable decline among gay men, researchers reported. Basically sex is following the pattern of wealth. Men as a group aren't having less sex, instead there's a winner take all effect where a small number of men are having a lot of sex with a lot of women while a large number of men are having little to no sex. It'l…
If true, I wonder how much of that is due to self-selection by men who aren't having sex. Having once upon a time been lonely and bitter, I know that men often end up in positive feedback loops that strengthen their not having sexual partners - due to the attitudes they develop towards women.
Re: Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows
#23They buried the lede here. > Sexual activity was largely unchanged among unmarried women, along with no notable decline among gay men, researchers reported. Basically sex is following the pattern of wealth. Men as a group aren't having less sex, instead there's a winner take all effect where a small number of men are having a lot of sex with a lot of women while a large number of men are having little to no sex. It'l…
https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2018/10/sexual-pa...
Re: Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows
#24They buried the lede here. > Sexual activity was largely unchanged among unmarried women, along with no notable decline among gay men, researchers reported. Basically sex is following the pattern of wealth. Men as a group aren't having less sex, instead there's a winner take all effect where a small number of men are having a lot of sex with a lot of women while a large number of men are having little to no sex. It'l…
As an example I see the Middle East where polygamy is not unheard of and the rise of the Islamic State or the Taliban.
Would be interesting if anybody has data on this.
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#25Is it a problem? People don't need to be having sex. As long as people are happy.
I think you answered your own question. If not, go visit a forum for incels and see how happy they are.
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#26are we really surprised? last year a woman called me a sexist because i said 'ladies firsr' on the coffee machine. a friend got problems with hr becahse apparently he stared at some titties in the elevator lol. luckily i am married and had my fair share of partners. but nowadays i would be scared as hell to even take the first step in the club. i mean, i might easily become a toxic male sexual predator exposed on soc…
Based on your comment, you probably have some work to do to on how you treat women.
Re: Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows
#27They buried the lede here. > Sexual activity was largely unchanged among unmarried women, along with no notable decline among gay men, researchers reported. Basically sex is following the pattern of wealth. Men as a group aren't having less sex, instead there's a winner take all effect where a small number of men are having a lot of sex with a lot of women while a large number of men are having little to no sex. It'l…
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#28are we really surprised? last year a woman called me a sexist because i said 'ladies firsr' on the coffee machine. a friend got problems with hr becahse apparently he stared at some titties in the elevator lol. luckily i am married and had my fair share of partners. but nowadays i would be scared as hell to even take the first step in the club. i mean, i might easily become a toxic male sexual predator exposed on soc…
Young man here. "Ladies first" is flat out weird to me, the only time I ever use it is jokingly with my girlfriend, sisters, or close female friends. I'm not sure if I'd go so far as to call it sexist, but it's an odd thing to say for sure.
times change
Re: Young U.S. men having a lot less sex in the 21st century, study shows
#29are we really surprised? last year a woman called me a sexist because i said 'ladies firsr' on the coffee machine. a friend got problems with hr becahse apparently he stared at some titties in the elevator lol. luckily i am married and had my fair share of partners. but nowadays i would be scared as hell to even take the first step in the club. i mean, i might easily become a toxic male sexual predator exposed on soc…
Grow up. If you get called out for being unprofessional at work, you need to recognize that your lack of professionalism is the problem, not the people who notice it.
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#30"The survey found that from 2000 to 2018, nearly one in three U.S. men aged 18 to 24 reported no sexual activity in the past year." I'm not sure I understand what they are measuring. This sentence is hard to parse. Did they ask people who were those ages during those years if they had gone an entire year without sex during that period? Did they ask people of that age slowly over the course of those 18 years and recor…
They ran the study periodically from 2000 to 2018.
At each point, they surveyed groups, of which, one bracket was "men aged 18 to 24".
Within that bracket, one third of those surveyed reported no sexual activity in the past year.
This was roughly consistent over the entire 18 year period.