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Saudi Women, Tired of Restraints, Find Ways to Flee

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> Saudi Arabia is a very thorough implementation of Islam, and therefore a disgusting country. You make the assumption that the Saudi version of Islam is the only valid one. It's not.

I don't think the parent made that assumption, though. They stated it was "thorough", not valid. While I have no idea what a "valid" interpretation of Islam means (it seems like an unprovable honorific, bestowed arbitrarily), "thorough" seems more like an assertion of direct correspondence to the original text.

> "thorough" seems more like an assertion of direct correspondence to the original text

Direct correspondence to the original text is not the way most religions work, and it's not the way Christianity and Islam have worked historically.

Scripture is not always interpreted literally, and the people who insist on a literal interpretation are usually innovators, because it wasn't done that way originally.

The literalists are not more thorough than the others in their understanding of their religion or their dedication to it -- they are just more literal in their reading, and often more simplistic in their beliefs as a result.

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True, but the only way to make it more sensible is to be less thorough. I.e. not implement certain rules that are stated explicitly in the books. Like modern Christians and Jews that do not kill adulterers, even though Deuteronomy explicitly tells them to do so.

The literal interpretation of the scriptures is not the only one, and it's certainly not the one that was prevalent historically. That's true for both Christianity and Islam. To read scripture literally is not more thorough than to interpret it in some other way.

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I don't think the parent made that assumption, though. They stated it was "thorough", not valid. While I have no idea what a "valid" interpretation of Islam means (it seems like an unprovable honorific, bestowed arbitrarily), "thorough" seems more like an assertion of direct correspondence to the original text.

> "thorough" seems more like an assertion of direct correspondence to the original text Direct correspondence to the original text is not the way most religions work, and it's not the way Christianity and Islam have worked historically. Scripture is not always interpreted literally, and the people who insist on a literal interpretation are usually innovators, because it wasn't done that way originally. The literalist…

I don't particularly disagree with you, I was simply making an observation that the original claim of "thoroughness" didn't seem to me to imply any assertion of perceived validity.

Besides that, the perceived validity of religious interpretations is largely in the eye of the beholder and statistically varies with sociocultural context and many other factors. Personally, the farther away from literalism people get on the literalist-modern Unitarian scale, the happier I'd be.

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True, but in a major city in Canada at that age, she will have no problem making friends. Just has to contend with her first winter. Otherwise her timing coudn't be better, with diplomatic relations being the disaster they are now.

I'm not sure that Canada is for someone leaving Saudi Arabia as a positive thing as you think. The person leaving doesn't necessarily love Canada... even if it is the better option.

Why wouldn't they?

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True, but the only way to make it more sensible is to be less thorough. I.e. not implement certain rules that are stated explicitly in the books. Like modern Christians and Jews that do not kill adulterers, even though Deuteronomy explicitly tells them to do so.

The literal interpretation of the scriptures is not the only one, and it's certainly not the one that was prevalent historically. That's true for both Christianity and Islam. To read scripture literally is not more thorough than to interpret it in some other way.

Well, by thorough I simply meant not skipping any part. And those horrible parts of scriptures from religions originating from middle east (Judaism, Christianity, Islam) really cannot be sensibly interpreted in any metaphoric way unless by skipping it. A common way to do it is by saying "this is very specific code that was only relevant in societies back then; we're wise to not follow it now". But that's just skipping with extra steps.

Edit: just to make sure it's clear - I'm very happy when such skipping happens. A quote from Captive Mind by Czeslaw Milosz:

> When someone is honestly 55% right, that’s very good and there’s no use wrangling. And if someone is 60% right, it’s wonderful, it’s great luck, and let him thank God. But what’s to be said about 75% right? Wise people say this is suspicious. Well, and what about 100% right? Whoever say he’s 100% right is a fanatic, a thug, and the worst kind of rascal.

> By “an old Jew of Galicia”.

Re: Saudi Women, Tired of Restraints, Find Ways to Flee

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I'm not sure that Canada is for someone leaving Saudi Arabia as a positive thing as you think. The person leaving doesn't necessarily love Canada... even if it is the better option.

Why wouldn't they?

I think it is way to easy to assume our places and cultures that we're familiar with will be comfortable or appreciated by others.

I met a former Amish person who left that way of life once. One of their biggest challenges was explaining to others that because they chose not to be Amish ... doesn't mean they want to be like or that they would approve of it or like it.

That's a very lonely place to be.

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I'm not sure that Canada is for someone leaving Saudi Arabia as a positive thing as you think. The person leaving doesn't necessarily love Canada... even if it is the better option.

Why wouldn't they?

Lots of immigrants don’t like it. I personally know many who don’t.

Some stay and complain about “their ways” and how it’s better “back home”. Generally it’s older people, who are now stuck. They can never go back.

Others actually go back.

I know of a whole family who moved to Canada, not once, but twice! And eventually still went back to Eastern Europe. And this was mid-2000s, post-war country. Kids finished university and they were gone.

I know of 3 younger people who were proper immigrants, not edu visa, had finished their education and were offered/found good opportunities back in their countries and moved.

One friend of mine lived in Canada almost 20 years. Went to Moscow following his gf (she got a job as an English teacher). He loves it there and he stayed permanently.

I know many more stories like that. Life in Canada is good. It’s safe and peaceful. Almost complacent. Not everyone enjoys that lifestyle though.

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Read this wonderful, but appalling book (true story) over December: Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia PRINCESS describes the life of Sultana Al Sa'ud, a princess in the royal house of Saudi Arabia. Hidden behind her black veil, she is a prisoner, jailed by her father, her husband and her country. Sultana tells of appalling oppressions, everyday occurrences that in any other culture would…

It goes without saying this is fake story/book.

Google it for yourself to decide, but just your description should tip you off.

These books are common Iraq, North Korea and Saudi Arabia is seems.

They are not propaganda in themselves, but they fit a narrative people don't want to dispel and are great reading. But they just are not true.

Here's a article to start you off https://www.wrmea.org/1996-october/princess-plagiarism-suit-...

But remember the story it stole from would of itself been in part a lie. All good stories are.

Re: Saudi Women, Tired of Restraints, Find Ways to Flee

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IF people had stepped in when it happened to a man, she might have just been let through.

The Thai's would have known the pressure they would be under.

It's not a zero sum game, helping 'people' helps both sides, the us against them hurts everyone, but I doubt anyone will learn, when will we learn a refugee is a refugee. A person hurt is a person, it doesn't have to be gendered. Saudi men need to flee too.

Australian football executives meet Bahraini royal over detained footballer Hakeem al-Araibi The meeting comes more than 40 days after the Australian-based refugee was detained in Thailand

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2019/jan/09/austr...

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Are you seriously saying that a woman choosing to wear a hijab like in a place where you have to do it is empowering? Or the equivalent would be you are going to hell if you don't do something (like a Muslim whose family says she must wear one). That's rediculous.
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