I didn't tell anyone about this, and hoped my wife would say she saw this funny ad.
Turns out she had seen it for months and just didn't click it. She thought it was some spammy ad that had a personal photo of us. It was hilarious to learn it worked right away, but that targeting an individual doesn't actually matter.
The ad system is actually awesome wrt privacy. Advertisers never get personal information, but can still target with agility.