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Re: You are not your job

#191

I agree with this article fully, but there is a problem that most blog posts about identity don't talk about before telling you what do with your own. What is identity actually for? This is the only article I know of that talks about this: https://danielkeogh.com/blog/post/On%20not%20being%20miserab...

What a fantastic article. Lately I came to the same conclusions but never could put it in words. Thank you!

Re: You are not your job

#192

There’s an old aphorism: “Do what you love, and you’ll never work a day in your life.” I worked in tech, because I love tech . No other reason, really. I accepted a job, making maybe half of what I could make, elsewhere, because of the personal satisfaction I got from it, and the relationships I made, there. When I retired, I have continued to develop software, and am currently “leaning into” AI-assisted development.…

I love tech. Reading tech books is something I do on a daily basis. I work on personal side projects, learn new ways of solving things, languages, frameworks, libraries, etc.

But I have to say that as I grow older, I like less and less the tech my boss makes me work on. And that applies to perhaps the majority of potential bosses out there.

Re: You are not your job

#193

Fine essay overall but “We possess the means to care for everyone -- yet choose not to” I really don’t think this is true

The US could make homelessness a thing of the past with a minuscule fraction of what it is spending on the military. It is very much a choice.

For an ideal ('spherical cow in a vacuum') type of homeless person, sure.

Re: You are not your job

#194
Strange how yet nobody commented on the irony of having an article titled "You are not your job" starting with:

> I'm Jacob - I run Sancho Studio a software consulting studio - I write about cryptography, craft, and human experience.

Basically opening with who they are as defined by their job.

Re: You are not your job

#195

Since the beginning of human history, people have always defined themselves by what they contribute to the group; a hunter, a farmer, a king... Today is no different. We may not be our job, but that is how others see us at first. They are not trying to get to know you; they just want to know where you fit, so they know how to deal with you. Only later, if things get personal, might they become interested in you as a…

That is not your job, but your role in the group. Being a parent, a child or a spouse, a friend or a running mate, are not jobs. The point of the article is that your identity should not be driven by just one role, that is transactional and will not span your whole life. You need to broaden your target and also understand that you open new roles with each new relationship, plus also you can create new roles into existing relationships.

Re: You are not your job

#196
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Recently: Ireland rolls out basic income scheme for artists https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=46977175 Not quite UK, and not very big, but somewhat promising :) >How do you uphold democracy https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/perspectives-on-poli... >Multivariate analysis indicates that economic elites and organized groups representing business interests have substantial independent impacts on U.S. government…

> Not quite UK, and not very big, but somewhat promising :) Rulers have given stipends to artists and scholars for hundreds of years. There's hardly anything new about it. Make the art or science that satisfies the duke or the glorious district chairman and you will be on the receiving end of these benefits.

Also, among names who did succeed in pursuing these benefits, there are countless forgotten ones who also tried.

Almost like startups and youtube streamers of today, who would have thought.

Re: You are not your job

#197
Work inevitably has highs and lows. Sometimes you'll fail at something. If you tie your self-worth to your job, then you risk anchoring your self-esteem to external factors you can't control. Learn to value yourself on who you are aside from your work.

Re: You are not your job

#198
A rather privileged perspective. Software engineer, tech in general, is a new and unique sort of job. Knowledge workers who can work out of any office, even remotely from home, is a very new thing. Throughout history, even the most educated and able had to locate themselves near the worksite. Doctors need to be near patients, lawyers the courts. Even congressmen used to live in dormitories to stay in DC.

My point: You job does define you because, for the vast majority of people, one's job dictates where and how you live. It is a rarefied elite that can so easily disconnect their work from their outside lives. Tell a farmer about work-life balance when if he sleeps in, animals will suffer. Tell a cop that her doing graveyard shifts wrestling drunk people doesn't dictate the flow of her daily life. Tell a soldier that moving home ever other year doesn't impact his long-term social connections. Normal people have long been defined by their jobs, and it still holds today. Calling out such ties as unenlightened or to be avoided sticks a finger in the eye of the billions for whom their job is their life.

Re: You are not your job

#199
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UBI/UBS requires a very solidaric community. But the current situation (in Germany) is not about finding any job but taking a low paid, hard working or even dangerous job (nursing service, shifter, even soldier, public sector). UBI makes it even harder to find people for that kind of jobs. Not paying any social benefits and increasing the pressure on the unemployed to take these jobs is much more interesting for ever…

A lot, I'd say even most people in Germanys long term unemployment scheme which are not already working part time (Aufstocker) have severe mental and physical health problems. More pressure isn't going to help those people but it's the current Government's shtick. I'd say UBI would make it easier to find people working in demanding jobs because you could to them part time, so they don't wear you down as much. It's mu…

> It's much easier to work as a nurse for 20 hours a week.

However, being a nurse is a skilled job that a Joe from street cannot do on a whim, and at the same time it has very shitty pay.

I’d say being a nurse competes in shittiness of the pay/work ratio with another indispensable job, a schoolteacher.

Re: You are not your job

#200

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> Your average person doesn't know how to grow their own food And, you know the sad part? A lot of places don't allow you to even try to learn. For example, my current place that I rent has a yard (it's a nice little trailer home), but I'm not allowed to have a garden. They even chopped down the nice tree that was growing in the yard when I first moved in. Oh, I can certainly try to grow stuff inside in containers, b…

To be fair, growing your own food is incredibly inefficient. Agriculture is one of the places where economies of scale shine very very brightly.

> To be fair, growing your own food is incredibly inefficient

Life is not an optimization problem.

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