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A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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Don Shipley should check for this guy’s name in his database just to verify. Meeting a SEAL is like getting struck by lightning because there are so many phonies out there stealing valor. I hope it’s not the case.

It's not hard to find more info about the guy, just Google his name.

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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This is the social value that we used to get from churches, fraternal organizations, bowling leagues, block parties....

Those all tend to be pretty ideologically homogeneous...

Bowling clubs and block parties are ideologically homogeneous?

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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If you have kids that want to do things in a pretty non-conformant way (with beautiful irony) I'd recommend taking a look at VMI and The Citadel, neither requires military service afterward (although it is an option and a good one to pay for the experience) yet you will be along side some of the best current and future military leaders as teachers, classmates, and friends for life. The Federal service academies are a…

Did you go to either of those schools?

Yes, G Co 2011 at El Cid

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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Many people of different types have preferences about what they consider respectful forms of address and communication. I don't expect people to always get it right (I certainly don't), but it is entirely reasonable to see am unwillingness to even try to be polite as disrespectful.

It's not impolite to use standard terms of address, and it's disrespectful to expect others to learn and remember your personal, nonstandard preference for how you want to be addressed.

They is the only available standard gender neutral term. The only alternative is "it" which is generally considered offensive when applied to people (try calling a new baby whose gender you don't know "it" and see what kind of look you get).

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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I'm not sure what your point is here. The definition of space space in the article is only limited to discussion, not identity or comfort. You claim that's not what they actually are, so you are agreeing with the OP then in pointing out how the article uses a different definition than the common usage in reality.

You’re conflating several distinct points into one. By expanding on how I see the term safe space being used doesn’t mean I disagree with the article and therefore agree with the OP. I don’t think that’s that hard to understand. I don’t really find it productive to continue this discussion.

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Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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I'm not sure what your point is here. The definition of space space in the article is only limited to discussion, not identity or comfort. You claim that's not what they actually are, so you are agreeing with the OP then in pointing out how the article uses a different definition than the common usage in reality.

You’re conflating several distinct points into one. By expanding on how I see the term safe space being used doesn’t mean I disagree with the article and therefore agree with the OP. I don’t think that’s that hard to understand. I don’t really find it productive to continue this discussion.

You literally disagree with the article (and agree with the op) on the definition of a safe space.

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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Also hiring. I worked with an ex Army Ranger who was by far the best leader I've seen.

I have an ex ranger on my team who is the most sexist, pompous, self important asshole I’ve ever met. By far the best bloviator and derailer of projects I’ve seen.

Ex ranger...

While I didn't serve, I did grow up with and had close family and friends that were part of navy, army and air force special forces.

The clown you describe does not last long in special forces unless he's a modern day Audie Murphy, Roy Benavidez or Chesty Puller.

Re: A Navy Seal's Semester at Yale, at Age 52

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If hearing the opinion of someone you vehemently disagree with, in this case the appropriateness of sexual affirmation surgery (or whatever its called these days), hurts you are not mature enough for institutions of higher learning, or quite frankly, to constructively participate in democratic society. As a Jew, hearing the words of neo-nazis absolutely disgusts me to my core but it does not "hurt" me. If words hurt…

As a fellow Jew, I hope you'd be just as tolerant of these neo nazis coming to your schul and calling the Holocaust a hoax. If not, it seems like you need a safe space as much as the more disenfranchised minority groups.

On the contrary, I'd hate it. But at no point would I feel that their words were violating my safety.
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