Earlier quoted context omitted.
The "problem" with your #2 is that only one side wants that. The other side fears losing their privilege/capital/power/reputation and cares not a whit for those they consider sub-human. Putting some foxes into the henhouse won't go well for the hens when it's dinner time.
> The "problem" with your #2 is that only one side wants that. If this were true, only one side would have wedge issues.
Their "gotta get mine before anyone else gets theirs" attitudes and beliefs are absolutely antithetical to such a thing.
So I stand by my statement: Only one side is willing to have a productive conversation about any given issue.