This is a good illustration of why you should not install apps as administrator. Specifically, you should not install Mac OS packages, which allow for arbitrary pre- and post- install scripts to be executed as root. Same is true for Windows and Linux. There are privilege escalation bugs in any OS, but it is usually not a given. Throw the application into ~/Applications as a Mac bundle, worst that will happen is your…
so how do I get around this if most apps I want require this?
2. Most packages can be extracted with pkgutil and then just copied into ~/Applications.
It is infrequent that somebody needs to modify your OS and if they do, then they better explain why.