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I Violated a Code of Conduct

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Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#171
Another supports Code of Conduct's, but actually had to deal with the repercussions article.

When you are on the side of evil, bad things happen.

I just wish the reverse wasn't true, this is what we need to work on.

A society that separates these bad people off and lets them destruct themselves. So good people are not getting hurt. Work on the rest later.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#172

Earlier quoted context omitted.

A vocal minority is enough to dox you, to bother your workplace, your school/college, to get you fired/expelled, and alltogether, to make you "too hot" to hire, especially by large tech companies, who have whole departments of "vocal minority" people dealing with tiny stuff like that. Cancel culture has to stop.

What do you concretely think should be done though? Aren't there already laws about harassing people? I think the news should be more responsible by not reporting that someone was offended by something unless it has serious objective merit because it just gets everyone riled up on non-issues for no good reason. Aside from that, "cancel culture" feels quite a vague topic that would be hard to police in any way because…

> Aside from that, "cancel culture" feels quite a vague topic

A good, frustrating point. A large proportion of complaints of cancel culture are coupled with implications of frustration that they feel they can't say unpleasant things that they would have gotten away with previously. Or people complaining about direct efforts to change social norms that they don't agree with, claiming that due to a status quo bias, change is cancellation and therefore baseless.

As with most ideologies, discussing the definition is a fairly pointless task because its subjective and ill-defined, especially by those who feel passionately about it. The term is pointless. What happened in this case sounds bad, at a glance. Let's not generalize it to other things. It'll get nowhere. Whether or not one believes something is a part of cancel culture has no bearing on whether a particular idea to squash something is good or not.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#173
There were only 3 reports of CoC enforcements I found and read. One was over an inappropriate joke, but between friends, one is this and one was a real violation with sexual harassment which they COULD NOT ENFORCE...

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#174
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Man, I'm so happy that things like https://github.com/mniip/wtfcoc/blob/master/CoC.md exist. People are so fragile nowadays on the internets. how come?

I think in new projects from now on I'll start running echo "Don't be a dickhead, or I'll block you from the repo until you stop." > CODE_OF_CONDUCT.md Not needlessly aggressive, gets the point across, short, covers everything someone could do wrong, provides consequences and a pathway to reconciliation.

It doesn't communicate what you consider to be dickhead behavior, so it invites fear, uncertainty and doubt both in whether my behavior is okay, and in what behavior of other participants I can expect to be "protected" from.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#175

It was clearly a mistake for him to even play along, especially if he was emotionally exhausted already. The best you can do when people are being stupid like this is ignore them. They hold no power over you unless you let them. This whole CoC thing is sadly fraught with virtue signaling psycho-sadists who enjoy playing tribunal. The people who actually cared about fostering inclusive human communities got bullied ou…

Agree. I wonder what would the reaction be if Joel Grus was a woman.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#176
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We're literally tearing ourselves apart, and I don't want to hold opinions about human beings anymore. Anyone can be an enemy or dislike you. Social media has rotted us from within and from all sides. Left, right, it doesn't matter. Everyone is so hostile and eager to end other people. This is madness. Yes, I did read the article. We're cancelling people over criticism . Somebody needs to hide Linus. I don't like cri…

>diversity of opinions It takes a level of maturity that most people never reach to handle real diversity of opinions. This is why universities used to be small places with only highly interested intellectuals trained to handle that diversity. And even they weren't great at it. Modern universities are a joke, and they are better than most organizations.

> This is why universities used to be small places with only highly interested intellectuals trained to handle that diversity.

Which time period, and where? Universities used to be more exclusive, but I somehow doubt that exclusivity was for "intellectuals trained to handle that diversity" and not just "well-connected people".

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#177

Using CoC's to backstab people is not going to end well. Using CoC's to institute a heirarchy of 'who can criticize who' is going to be rebelled against. Some people are power hungry and use words to get power. They are exposing themselves in the silliest ways. Pure vanity.

> Using CoC's to backstab people is not going to end well.

But that's their only usecase, isn't it?

CoCs are just a convenient document aimed at helping out Cardinal Richelieus finding ways to hang you under the guise of breaking acceptable conduct.

I mean, CoCs aren't aimed at changing people and make everyone nice. CoCs are aimed at providing a basis to persecute those who arguably don't comply with a given notion of acceptable conduct, punish them for their sins, and turn them into examples to enforce a chilling effect on the community.

This example shows a CoC working exactly as it was intended to work.

People have turned a blind eye to the oppressive and abusive nature of the CoC concept because they tend to believe that it can only ever oppress those we deem undesirable. But unless you're the one doing the oppression, nothing ensures that the rules only apply to those you don't like.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#178
So you were wrong that you said the person was "wrong"? That person made you wrong by making your opinion contradict the code of conduct??? He's the bad guy. Punished. 50 pushups!

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#179
Can't help but feel these codes of conduct are unnecessary. I get the problem they're supposed to solve, setting ground rules for a community expected to broach various cultural boundaries, but I don't actually think they functionally achieve this. Few people bother reading them so they're more a mechanism for discipline than anything constructive.

Re: I Violated a Code of Conduct

#180
I'm sorry, I would not have been able to not go off on them for fucking him over. I get being professional, but this is rediculous. In regards for their actions, I would have retained an attorney as this affects his livelihood.
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