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Why I left Japan after 10 years

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Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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post #70

Earlier quoted context omitted.

It seems that he is serious. You knew that already. Perhaps you disagree? Perhaps you can present your own findings and contribute to the discussion? Based on my own fairly limited experience in Japan, English as learned in school doesn't seem to translate (a ha ha) into effective English conversation. It seems that an academic rigor is taught (no bad thing, of course) but practical conversation skills are neglected.

I find the attitude of people from English-speaking countries that the rest of the world should speak fluent English quite puzzling. It is understandable if you are a professional dealing with foreign companies, or if you are involved in the tourism business; that leaves out the vast majority of the population, which is not willing to invest hundreds of hours learning a skill that does not provide any significant ben…

    > I find the attitude of people from
    > English-speaking countries that the
    > rest of the world should speak fluent
    > English quite puzzling
I don't. If you can't speak English and you want to be a tourist in the vast majority of countries who speak a 3rd language, you'll be shit-out-of-luck.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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I suspect that feeling of being unwelcome would strike you in many countries. As far as I can tell, there's only a few cities around the world where my being foreign was a non-issue. I lived in Switzerland for a good few years, but although there are plenty of friendly people, the few people who weren't so friendly soured things. I suspect a different roll of the dice would have made it a much nicer experience. You c…

In Europe, Switzerland is known to be particularly unwelcoming to foreigners. "Out of 67 countries, Switzerland ranks 64th for friendliness and making newcomers feel welcome" http://lenews.ch/2016/09/02/expats-in-switzerland-arent-feel...

Disclaimer - I am a foreigner in Switzerland.

It's a bit distorted - it is a country with by far the highest immigration population in whole europe, if not whole world.

If they simply didn't want foreigners in their country, they can tweak working/residence permit situation so that most wouldn't qualify. They do and welcome them/us, BUT - you have to adapt and learn the language(s). Many, especially english-speaking expats, do have serious issues with this.

If you just roll in arrogantly and expect that your english will be enough and people will be coming to you in crowds to be your friends, then it it might not (or it might, depends). Simply because most of the country is full of similar people. Don't expect magic in some remote tiny valley, like anywhere.

That said, I am one living in french part who doesn't speak French properly, and I am just fine. It will help me a lot to learn it properly, my biggest TODO for near future. If I would be almost anywhere in France for example, I would be properly screwed without +-good level of french.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#103

Earlier quoted context omitted.

It's a difficult nuance in the point I'm trying to make, so I apologise. It's probably not a great analogy but, I think that if you were in e.g. the USA and there was use of White American Judicial System, or White American Police Force or something along those lines it would really scream out at you. I realise he is out of Japan now and the blog post is not necessarily targeting people in Japan, but a lot of foreign…

> Within context: "The police are awful" is better for your mental health than "The Japanese police are awful". Except the entire purpose of that section of the post was to describe Japanese police.

My point is that the context there being 'in Japan' and so the adjective is redundant (and exhibits the problems I've mentioned earlier).

And in that context he could say "The British police are awful" vs "The police are awful"

To compare. And then, yes, when it becomes necessary then yes, prefix with the adjective. In some cases it does make sense and aid communication.

I'm saying the blanket prefixing with the adjective is the problematic part.

It's fine if you don't agree, it's just a communication pattern I have noticed that doesn't seem to benefit anyone.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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It's kind of ironic how much he generalises Japanese people. See bad thing - link to Japanese people as a whole or in general, rather than the individual. It's an easy mistake to make. Especially if you do ever hear it in the inverse direction. "Foreigners do X or Y", etc. If he aimed to replace generic instances of 'Japanese people' or 'in Japan' with specific reference to the instance or person, I think he'd have h…

I am french and I know enough American culture to understand that generalization is not appropriate for America. But Japan is very different from America. There is a culture to follow tradition that have evolved to follow fashion in a very homogeneous manner. Individualism is almost non existent. I discuss often with Japanese people who makes the same types of generalizations. These generalizations are part of the understanding of Japanese people.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#105

It's kind of ironic how much he generalises Japanese people. See bad thing - link to Japanese people as a whole or in general, rather than the individual. It's an easy mistake to make. Especially if you do ever hear it in the inverse direction. "Foreigners do X or Y", etc. If he aimed to replace generic instances of 'Japanese people' or 'in Japan' with specific reference to the instance or person, I think he'd have h…

Mark, how many countries have you been an expat in?

I have been an immigrant in three countries

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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The "JAPANESE ONLY" sign was probably meant for chinese tourists. The kanji below it, "謝绝中国人", translates roughly to "decline chinese people" which is understandable given their notorious behavior abroad: http://shanghaiist.com/2016/12/30/shanghaiist_2016_embarrass... https://www.nytimes.com/2016/10/11/world/asia/bad-manners-ch... http://www.japantimes.co.jp/opinion/2016/10/07/commentary/wo...

I'm always intrigued in Thailand by which languages they choose to translate which signs to. In one of the big international hospitals, they have some guidelines in the bathroom:

* Don't wash your feet in the sink (Chinese and Arabic only)

* Don't squat on the toilet seat (Thai and Chinese only)

* Please wash your hands (English and Arabic only)

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#107
post #100

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Cars kill far more people than bicycles, both absolute and per capita, so if that's your measure, then the road is no place for cars.

Bicycles are far more dangerous. Even more so that motorcycles, most people are smart enough to realize that it's the 20 lb bicycle that loses to 4000 lbs of steel. Danger is calculated in risk per mile, not per capita / absolute. I drive a 4Runner because it has lots of steel and is very safe so that when my kids get into an accident learning to drive they don't die.

Sure, but cyclists don't kill other people. Cars do.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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post #54

Sounds like Japanese are happy with their culture and don't want it changed especially not by foreigners. It seems like a reasonable enough position, but I wonder if there a way to express this desire in a way that couldn't easily be criticized as being "xenopohbic"? Is there something inherently wrong with this attitude? (I personally wouldn't want to be a foreigner living there is what he describes is true, but no…

> Is there something inherently wrong with this attitude If the culture is good, no. If the culture is bad, yes.

I am pretty sure it will be a mix of both. (More importantly, who decides what is good and what is bad).

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

#109
post #69

I lived in Japan for 4 years, and afterwards felt in many ways similar, it's a place that can take a lot out of you, especially if you have expectations of fitting in. That said, in my 4 years there, the police was never anything but polite and friendly (I was never once stopped for a bag search or gaijin card check either) and now living in London, I find the police here, while polite and professional, much more int…

    > with their open carry of massive guns
This is an odd comment for a country (and indeed city) where the police are not routinely armed.

Re: Why I left Japan after 10 years

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post #40

I heard the "if you don't like it, leave line" from people all the time in America. Even with the pettiest of political disagreements, people say it. So then I went to Japan and haven't received or heard of anyone receiving similar vitriol aside from the OP. A foreign coworker (same race and nationality as me) endlessly complains about racism, discrimination, and being stared at here. I've experienced none of it. I'm…

I've never understood what's wrong with voting with your feet.

Reminds me of how the people most dissatisfied with their jobs stay the longest

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