Subsequently I was one of very few people he'd bother playing backgammon with because we'd both play stupidly fast, and switch between extreme style of play, almost at random. I'd usually lose, but he stayed and played because he found it interesting. He's very like a cat, in that he'll play with something for a time, then completely lose interest and walk away without a word.
Fascinating, and humbling, to spend time with someone just so far out of my league.