is it faster than MRI?
It should be faster. I haven't seen any newish real world benchmarks to that effect though. These web benchmarks give some conflicting results between MRI and JRuby : https://www.techempower.com/benchmarks/#section=data-r10&hw=... .
I know this is small consolation, but everything in the JRuby ecosystem is continuing to improve every day. When there's specific reproducible cases where we're slower, we take them very seriously.