In this market, I tend to think of options as incentives, and not as replacements for salary. Salary gets me in the door and work hard, great people and culture make me want to be there and evangelize, and options incentivize me to work my ass off. (I'd work my ass off without options, but the options really make it easy to say "I will do everything in my power to make this succeed" instead of "I'd rather go spend ti…
I tend to think of options as worthless, until they vest. Which is too far in the future to count on. Pay me money. That's actually useful.
Every dollar taken in investment reduces the likelihood of regular employees cashing out unless it boosts the ultimate stock price and success chance of the company significantly.
Too much money is chasing too many companies so the founders are tempted to take the money, roll the dice and hope they become a Facebook, even though the odds of that are extremely slim.
This is the difference between a "startup" and a business. Startups used to be a phase of business, but it's become it's own thing now.
A business will not take money it doesn't have to, realizing that profitability will fund growth. (And to be honest, I don't see a lot of mechanisms by which VC money funds growth-- all of the successes hit a viral growth loop or opened a massive unmet need... the VC money just made product development easier... mostly after the tornado started.)