@xmj posted the whole (private) IRC discussion online. Here's the link: https://archive.is/9KGyX#selection-9.6580-9.6583 I don't like to post private conversations, but this has been reported in other communities and it is an important piece of the puzzle to crearly understand the situation. This has to be discussed, because I think we need to fix the gender gap, but this kind of "fundamentalism" is not healthy. This…
I would rather you not repost things that were said in confidence. But if the above is true, I think it's up to them to explain / put the conversation into context. Simply slapping down evidence on the table really isn't helpful when parties can't explain their side.
Core and the Foundation will deal with this, and I'll make a public statement after they do. But until this problem has been resolved, there's no point in explaining it to a bunch of randoms that aren't even a part of the project. I give 0 fucks about the court of public opinion when it comes to dealing with an abuser in an open source project that I've been a part of for over a decade.