This is why a lot of commercial databases have a "you may not publish benchmarks" clause in the license. It seems unfair and restrictive, but benchmarking is hard , and even where users get everything else right every data load is different. It's easy to see why companies don't want writeups like this one dominating searches for " performance".
If you prohibit benchmarks, it's essentially saying "we have something to hide" (like bad performance...), or "we don't want competition".
I think it's far better to point out the flaws and specifics than to censor any attempt at comparison.