So I've had a question about stellar mass black holes that I can't seem to be able to get answered (the question was deleted for /r/askscience). How does a stellar mass black hole actually form a singularity given the fact that there's gravitational time dilation? Wouldn't the heart of a black hole slow down relative to an outside observer as mass is added to it so that you never actually reach infinite density? It s…
If they existed they could exist, but it's impossible for them to form.
I've asked many many physicists this very same question, and none could answer me (or I've gotten hand-wavy non answers). It's like no one wants to be the first to declare this well accepted thing as non-existing.
The black holes observed by astronomers are not actually black holes, but rather super massive neutron starts. It's not possible to distinguish between these two objects, astronomers assume a black holes based on size, not based on observed phenomena.