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I understand what you're saying, but my initial reaction is WTF! Now I need a freaking methodology to surf the net? I like to think of users as always being right, even when they do things I do not expect or would not approve of. So in this case, even if it weren't me we were talking about, I'd have to take the side of the user poking around at the system, trying to get it to work as well as he can.
"Now I need a freaking methodology" Sorry, I was trying to be less blunt than ending that sentence with "is a bad idea." "I like to think of users as always being right" Here's the problem - you weren't a user being resisted by software in that context. You were a person interacting with other people. You weren't poking at a system, you were having a conversation.
But I still think overall this process works fine. I just need to take some time to check out the entire thread first.
I view the board more like IRC -- a conversation can start one place and end up somewhere else. So as long as you have 2-3 parents in mind when commenting, you're free to go in a slightly new direction. Some folks, I imagine, view the topics more hierarchically. The site design encourages both views, actually.