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The introvert's guide to getting noticed

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Re: The introvert's guide to getting noticed

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This can be dangerous advice. The recent article about the girl that tweeted something that was considered by others to be racist makes me very wary of increasing my online cross-section. You literally can never know whether someone will take something you share, go on over to 4chan, and whip a ton of people into a doxxing storm over it.

No, that is terrible advicc! Saying "you should never do X because someone cold misinterpret it and bad stuff could happen" will lead to never doing X, or anything else for that matter. You just have to take that risk n real life that people might disagree with you, not understand you, or just not care. See the point about trolls in the article.

Re: The introvert's guide to getting noticed

#42

Earlier quoted context omitted.

> It was like this secret power, just putting on a Wardrobe of Charisma +5. That made me chuckle. Mind commenting on what kind of clothes they offered and for what sort of price range?

You might get some mileage out of: www.reddit.com/r/malefashionadvice

If you do go there, please take in account that a lot of the advice there is not really what you want unless you want to look to other 20ish year olds going out to bars/clubs. You will get mileage of going to a decent store and tell them you want to look for: going out/work event/golfing/etc. What loks good for trendy 20's in new york will look out of place/weird at a marina or a friend's birthday party. As everything, context matters!
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