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Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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At any one time I'd have a dozen projects all being worked on, none of them ever being finished. As I got older I made a rule never to start a new project until the old project is finished. As I've switched, I've noticed the motivations have changed. The last 20% of any project is un-fun work. All the excitement is gone and all that is left is tedium. This is when your eyes start wandering to other projects. It's add…

Exactly what I wanted to say, the last 20% of the project is always hardest without which whole project is unusable except you.

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

#102
LifeHacker had a pretty great article that helped me a lot that was about Jerry Seinfeld's secret to his success as a comedian, and it's entirely apropos:

http://lifehacker.com/281626/jerry-seinfelds-productivity-se...

FTA:

He told me to get a big wall calendar that has a whole year on one page and hang it on a prominent wall. The next step was to get a big red magic marker.

He said for each day that I do my task of writing, I get to put a big red X over that day. "After a few days you'll have a chain. Just keep at it and the chain will grow longer every day. You'll like seeing that chain, especially when you get a few weeks under your belt. Your only job next is to not break the chain."

"Don't break the chain," he said again for emphasis.

For myself, I pick a new project per month, write it on the calendar, and stick with it.

For example, one month was to learn about and write my own GreaseMonkey scripts for simple tasks at work. Now I have a little floating window in the bottom of my work webapps that automate small tasks for me, like stopping/starting pollers, inputting data, etc.

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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I recommend 2 books: "The War of Art" and "Do The Work", both from Steven Pressfield. In short, this is Resistance. Do The Work.

"The War of Art"? This book? http://www.amazon.co.uk/review/RWWMMSWYRYY10/ref=cm_cr_pr_pe... Really?

YES. I absolutely, unequivocally, strongly recommend this book!

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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I've had a similar problem in learning large swathes of complex material. I found myself often tired and easily distracted. Modafinil helped with the tiredness and kept me more intensely focused than I normally would be. Flashcards in question/answer format helped with making sure I remembered the core facts of what I was trying to learn. Not sure if this will help but it worked for me somewhat.

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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I've had a similar problem in learning large swathes of complex material. I found myself often tired and easily distracted. Modafinil helped with the tiredness and kept me more intensely focused than I normally would be. Flashcards in question/answer format helped with making sure I remembered the core facts of what I was trying to learn. Not sure if this will help but it worked for me somewhat.

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Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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I have the same exact problem. Im a self employed technology Consultant who deals with everything from desktop support, Office IT consulting, security systems, Home theater systems, web site design, and much more, with a lot of experience in the field. I have the same problem though, every month and sometimes every week, im on a new adventure. One week I want to actually get an MCSE, no but wait Linux is going to take over the world, let me study linux more, no wait everything is going to be scripted, lets study python, oh but wait all those jobs are moving to india, you have to be in UX where there is more creativity, man Im bored with this, I want to study cryptography which is way more interesting, Cryptography is fun, but do you really see yourself in the crypto field, finance is fun too and you can make a shit ton of money on your own, etc etc -And It's a cycle, Ill be back to square one in a years time or so. As far as how I deal with it, well, I already have a career, it being my own business, so I'm not really needing to pass any exam or anything, I kind of do all that stuff for fun and I do enjoy it. But it is frustrating not being able to stick to one thing really. I think the key is to push through the boring, frustrating parts. When you hit the lows in fun and interesting, you have to keep pushing through. I know it's harder than it sounds. A couple of suggestions would be try getting a partner that you can study with. I know it doesnt work for everyone but its a thought. Also, maybe learning through an actual project might get you to stick through it.

Good luck

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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Personally I find it less about the techniques and more about framing the problem correctly. For example everything you mention are just subjects (means to an end) but you haven't told us what the end you are most passionate about is. I find college isn't well set up for this and I fell in to the same trap as you, lots of activities but very little focus.

It took me years but eventually I started focusing on what the outcomes I wanted to make happen and then started focusing bringing in the learning I needed to support this. This also helps when you have to make decisions about what not to learn as if its not supporting your outcomes then it becomes more clear you can drop it or save it for later.

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

#109
Create a study group or get yourself an accountability buddy or coach who you check in with on a weekly basis. Could even be a friend who's not involved but whom you commit to emailing every week with an update and a goal for next week (maybe give him $100 that he'll only return if you follow through emailing every week). You can also do this via a public study log - blog, forum, etc that you update weekly or daily. Nothing is as useful as a little external social pressure and support. This seems particularly relevant in your case since you say you've tried doing this on your own before. Then, I'd combine that with actually having your schedule for those 4 months worked out, know what has to be done by when. Best of luck.

Re: Ask HN: The “I want to do everything but end up doing nothing” dilemma

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post #109

Create a study group or get yourself an accountability buddy or coach who you check in with on a weekly basis. Could even be a friend who's not involved but whom you commit to emailing every week with an update and a goal for next week (maybe give him $100 that he'll only return if you follow through emailing every week). You can also do this via a public study log - blog, forum, etc that you update weekly or daily.…

Also - read the "War of Art" by Steven Pressfield. Excellent book about resistance to hitting our goals. Indecision is simply resistance against what you know you should be doing - flipping is easier than persevering. Get a routine, make a habit of it (eg: commit to study at least 20 mins at the start of each day and continue if you get in a flow), etc.
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