Patreon is the U.S. and not subject to European laws. Patreon is also really just a distributor of money, they don't provide the person with a service. Why is a person with a web design business looking to use a site used to help artists who have trouble connecting art and normal business income? Finally she tweeted about how many people saw that blog post and said she should have included a tip jar. It really seems…
"Patreon is the U.S. and not subject to European laws." What makes you think this is true? Why can't Americans play poker online? Why does Amazon have to collect state taxes for states they don't have a physical presence in? Google is forced to censor French and German search results. Facebook is forced to follow EU privacy laws. And on, and on. Having customers in a country means you're doing business in that countr…
American anti-gambling laws.
"Why does Amazon have to collect state taxes for states they don't have a physical presence in?"
Because those states count things like affiliate programs and subsidiary companies as a sales tax "nexus". Amazon tends to kill those programs to avoid being taxable. They only collect sales tax in 24 states.
"Google is forced to censor French and German search results. Facebook is forced to follow EU privacy laws."
Yeah, because they have operations in those countries, and can thus be sued there. Also, perhaps, because they might be blocked in the relevant countries, and would rather stay in those markets.
The EU simply cannot make me collect VAT (or do any other crazy thing they think up), because I'm not in the EU. They can ban me or my services or products in their jurisdiction, or make life hard for my customers in their jurisdiction, which may be enough.