I didn't say everyone should manage their own bitcoin. I said people should manage it themselves
if they have the technical ability to do so. For everyone else, stick with banks. If you're borderline unsure whether you can store your coins in an encrypted wallet and make regular backups and not lose those backups, then keep your money in an FDIC-insured bank.
But sticking your coins into a webwallet like Coinbase without multisig control is a recipe for unmitigated personal disaster. A mental exercise is useful: "I've lost all my money." How would that affect your life?
I strongly disagree with anyone who would push the view that it's okay to sweep the issues under the rug in the name of making Bitcoin more popular. Putting people's fortunes at risk is almost equivalent to putting their lives at risk, because your quality of life is directly proportional to your fortune.
If Bitcoin sounds risky, that's because it is. No amount of regulated exchanges will change that. What will change it is giving consumers multisig control over their coins, or insuring against a total loss of all coins including cold storage.
There's literally no other option. One of those two things must happen, or you must not use the services. Or if you do use them, don't put in more than a quarter of what you're comfortable with losing. If that's $100, then never deposit more than $25 in BTC.
Remember, Bitstamp just lost $5 million USD to hackers, or half their most recent investment round. It's unknown whether they're currently insolvent. Everyone thinks they might have enough money to cover the losses, but nobody knows for sure. They could currently be a fractional reserve.
So Mt. Gox wasn't a one-off. Nobody is safe from hackers, technical issues, or even rogue employees that want to become millionaires. Due to the untraceable nature of Bitcoin, all exchanges and webwallets are extremely attractive targets.