What if the idea of work itself is what you dislike? There are plenty of activities I can enjoy, and some, quite a few of them in fact, are profitable. Once you shoe-horn them into the power dynamic situation of a traditional job (with the bureaucracy that entails unless you're dealing with Actual People as opposed to corporations), suddenly a lot of the luster disappears. As a ridiculous example - I enjoy reading. I…
So treat the drones as Actual People. You'll be surprised. It... doesn't always work, but it's worth a shot. I think the perception that it's "submission" is a framing problem. (s)He has his problems, you have yours. You probably don't want his. I have at times gotten way too close to being the boss; I don't want it unless it's a very narrow situation. If it's actual submission, then I can't help you. I just don't la…
Unfortunately this was for a casual job alongside my undergrad (i.e. not enough to pay the bills in the real world).
Otherwise - 'The Boss' is not an actual person. They're not my manager, they're not the HR department. 'The Boss' is a nebulous set of policy documents. Or as you say, there's a boss above a boss above a boss, and no-one that can actually be reasoned with or respected.
One day perhaps I'll be lucky enough to work for a small company without these issues cropping up, but that's been my take on things so far.