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How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by jasonshen »

tunesmith wrote: post #7

Just curious, how much detail does the book go into "figuring out what you want"? Most books like this go into more detail for the second part ("how to get what you want"), which I've never had as much of a problem with.

Great question. From a word count perspective, roughly 30% of the book is devoted to "figuring out". Ultimately, that section is about helping people recognize that it's important to choosing wants. It's true that the latter still gets more attention. I think that's in part because stories and data about making choices is more limited since it is so personal and "in people's heads" vs "in the world".

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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con-templative wrote: post #8

"In 1954, Roger Bannister set a world record, running one mile in 3:59.4. The 4 minute mile had become a white whale, with medical experts arguing that the human body wasn’t capable of completing it. Prior to Bannister, the previous one mile record had stood at 4:01 for nine years. Less than a year later, someone else ran a sub 4 minute mile. Today, hundreds of American runners, and likely thousands around the world…

Really appreciate that link - and definitely a fact I will tuck away. Pacesetters and track surface... fascinating!

Still, I think the fact that the fastest man in the world at the time had tried multiple times to beat it and could not definitely puts a damper on anyone else trying to break a record.

Clearly technology and social forces were at work. Believing you can do something does not make it so. But NOT believing you can do something sure as hell isn't going to help you make it happen.

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by davidtanner »

Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't feel like you provide enough sample content to convince me that this is worth paying money for.

What does this book say that hasn't already been said by various mainstream self help authors, Steve Pavlina, people in the human potential movement, etc. ?

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by jasonshen »

obstinate wrote: post #9

10000 words in 36 chapters? 300 words per chapter seems a bit short, doesn't it? This comment is already more than twenty words long, so each chapter would be just one or two paragraphs.

One of my favorite bloggers in the world is Seth Godin.

Here's a post he wrote recently: http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2015/01/unprepared.h...

It's 247 words and 9 paragraphs. I don't think he's worried about the number of sentences in his paragraphs, nor were the 796 people who liked his post on Facebook.

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by jasonshen »

davidtanner wrote: post #13

Maybe I'm missing something, but I don't feel like you provide enough sample content to convince me that this is worth paying money for. What does this book say that hasn't already been said by various mainstream self help authors, Steve Pavlina, people in the human potential movement, etc. ?

I just added another 3 chapters to the book preview that you get from clicking the cover. That brings the total to 7 chapters, nearly 20% of the 36 chapters in the book. If you're not excited to get the book at that point, you're probably not going to like it once you buy. Which is totally cool.

As for your second question, there are 6,000 books in the "Applied Psychology" category on Amazon, and 28,000 books in the "Success". Between all of them, I'm sure that none of the ideas I've presented in this book haven't already been said.

What this book offers is my unique take on those ideas, the personal stories I've shared, the way I've presented the research, and the voice through which I've expressed it.

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by obstinate »

jasonshen wrote: post #14
obstinate wrote: post #9

10000 words in 36 chapters? 300 words per chapter seems a bit short, doesn't it? This comment is already more than twenty words long, so each chapter would be just one or two paragraphs.

One of my favorite bloggers in the world is Seth Godin. Here's a post he wrote recently: http://sethgodin.typepad.com/seths_blog/2015/01/unprepared.h... It's 247 words and 9 paragraphs. I don't think he's worried about the number of sentences in his paragraphs, nor were the 796 people who liked his post on Facebook.

I didn't mean it as an attack, nor was I suggesting you should be worried about the number. But its presence on the marketing page as a selling point confused me. The fact it's there reads to me as if you're saying, "this is valuable because it's 10k words long." But 10k words is not long -- it's quite short. Especially compared to almost any other book of prose you might pay $4 for.

I understand that's probably not what you meant, but that's how I interpreted it.

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by obstinate »

zinssmeister wrote: post #16

Who is Jason Shen and why should I give him $10 for a book with a terribly silly title?

From the linked page:

"Hey, I’m Jason Shen. I’m a writer, athlete, and lifelong tech geek.

I do marketing and product management at Percolate, an enterprise software company based in NYC. Previously, I co-founded Ridejoy, a YC-backed transportation company, and served as a Presidential Innovation Fellow at the Smithsonian. Back in the day, I was captain of an NCAA championship gymnastics team at Stanford.

B.S. + M.S. from Stanford University Author of the Amazon best-seller: Winning Isn't Normal: Meditations on the Art of Ass-Kicking"

It is an impressive biography, there is no question about that.

Re: How to Get What You Want – a short primer for ambitious people

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Post by con-templative »

jasonshen wrote: post #12
con-templative wrote: post #8

"In 1954, Roger Bannister set a world record, running one mile in 3:59.4. The 4 minute mile had become a white whale, with medical experts arguing that the human body wasn’t capable of completing it. Prior to Bannister, the previous one mile record had stood at 4:01 for nine years. Less than a year later, someone else ran a sub 4 minute mile. Today, hundreds of American runners, and likely thousands around the world…

Really appreciate that link - and definitely a fact I will tuck away. Pacesetters and track surface... fascinating! Still, I think the fact that the fastest man in the world at the time had tried multiple times to beat it and could not definitely puts a damper on anyone else trying to break a record. Clearly technology and social forces were at work. Believing you can do something does not make it so. But NOT believi…

> Still, I think the fact that the fastest man in the world at the time had tried multiple times to beat it and could not definitely puts a damper on anyone else trying to break a record.

It didn't put a damper on Bannister. In fact, you could argue that the press coverage around the limit motivated more people to try to break four minutes for the acclaim. Without that narrative, maybe Bannister wouldn't have been motivated enough to do it.

> Clearly technology and social forces were at work. Believing you can do something does not make it so. But NOT believing you can do something sure as hell isn't going to help you make it happen.

You may be right, but the 4-minute-mile anecdote doesn't show this. In Landy's case, it wasn't new-found belief, but technology and knowledge that pushed him under four minutes.

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