I found all build systems for all platforms to be a total PITA and eventually i just resort to using a shell or python script to invoke the commands i want. With this method you can very easily add user promting (do you want to build debug or release?), database reporting of build and test results, source control integration etc. Whatever i learn here can be applied and reused for new things in the future instead of knowing all the 150 flags of whatever build chain of the day.
This does not mean invoking compile manually on every file but you you invoke the smallest possible build file for your intended platform just for building and absolutely nothing else. Compiling c projects without make would otherwise take hours instead of minutes.
Really, Gradle requires you to read the first 12 chapters of the manual before you can even begin doing something more advanced than running compile. Msbuild likewise, it's like a completely new programming language just that it's written in xml. Bamboo is just like imperative programming except you have to drag and drop boxes that invokes commands or plugins (yep, another plugin hell). CMake works kindof painlessly but it also requires a lot of black magic when you want to add dependencies outside of the c buildchain.
The only one that actually doesn't make you cry is 'make' because it's so simple, it's just doing one thing instead of trying to tie itself into the entire ecosystem badly. Make also has it's problems but when you start hitting those it's more of a sign that you are trying to add too much weird logic that should not be in the build script to begin with.