I love the RPi and what it has done to introduce computing/programming/linux to more people. However I can't get past how unreliable booting from an SD card has been for me. I know reliability depends heavily on the SD card used and on the quality of board socket but I am disappointed that Rev 2 of the board did not come with the option of on-board flash.
Been lurking for a bit. Was hoping to say hello with a constructive comment but I have to jump in here. I bought a Pi model B for my daughter. Nothing but terrible unreliability. Booting problems as you state, power problems with the USB ports, random hangs and crashes and problems getting half of the devices recommended to work. I kind of expected that for the money but the thing that really pissed me off was when I…
I also blew up a cheap chinese power supply 1A/5V but since I have been using a 2.5A/5V power supply I have had no problems (I back feed it via the "front" usb port, the hub has power on the input line, although that is not recommended.)
After that I never had any problems, 1 has been running OpenElec (XBMC) for more than a year now. Another one switches my lighting, also never any problems (running 24/7 for over a year), it is fed via the USB in my router. One of them also spent half a year in a data-center (http://raspberrycolocation.com/), it never failed.
There is no excuse for being treated so poorly on the forums but I have the feeling like you just had bad luck so far. It happens, My Moto G had yellow pixels and a failing audio system. Still a good phone judging from the experience of others.
If you really just want it to work out of the box, buy the recommended power supply (2A/5V I think), a good SD card or a preinstalled one with NOOBS (http://www.raspberrypi.org/help/noobs-setup/).