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My Wife Is Telling Me to Have Drinks with Other Women (maybe You Should, Too)

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Re: My Wife Is Telling Me to Have Drinks with Other Women (maybe You Should, Too)

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There's a chance the wife is having drinks with other men (just as friends) and she feels guilty so wants her husband to get drinks with other women as well.

Definitely. She's probably planing to get divorced. Come back to us in six months...

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There's a chance the wife is having drinks with other men (just as friends) and she feels guilty so wants her husband to get drinks with other women as well.

Definitely. She's probably planing to get divorced. Come back to us in six months...

I think this underlines the point rather well -- it's SO improbable that sharing a drink is anything but romantic that you guys assume a divorce in 6months?

FWIW, my wife (Monica Guzman) is commenting actively on FB thread about this here. https://www.facebook.com/moniguzman/posts/759642049127?notif...

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The $10,000 pay difference between men and women in executive positions seems far from practically the same to me.

Fair point. It should be rephrased to mean, a much smaller gap than is commonly understood to exist.

I paraphrased from the event, and then added the data w/o double checking. Shame on me.

Re: My Wife Is Telling Me to Have Drinks with Other Women (maybe You Should, Too)

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I'm a little puzzled. If you're uncomfortable having business drinks with women, and you've seen how a simple invitation can go badly in a sexual harassment context, why not just stop having drinks as a context for a business meeting with either men or women? Have lunch, get together for coffee, etc.
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