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FWIW, it's always been easier for me to think of it as 'moving' more quickly along the time axis - which would appear slowed down to someone farther away from the source of the gravity. Perhaps that's what the parent was getting at?
> FWIW, it's always been easier for me to think of it as 'moving' more quickly along the time axis - which would appear slowed down to someone farther away from the source of the gravity. In reality, it's the other way around. At the bottom of a gravity well, time passes more slowly. An astronaut on the moon observing a laser beam from earth's surface would see it as red-shifted compared to a local reference, reflect…
If you're deep in a gravity well, you observe physical processes happening outside that well to go along more quickly, not more slowly. And the reverse is true if you are outside a gravity well, observing something in it.
Take some observer, Alice, far away from a massive body, who sees some process occurring near it take one second to complete. A second observer, Bob, nearer to the massive body, will see the same process take 1 - ε seconds to complete (and Alice will say Bob's clock is slow). In effect, Bob has passed through one second of (Alice) time in only 1 - ε seconds of (local, to Bob) time.
That's what I mean when I say "pass through time / move along the time axis more quickly". To think of it another way, ask who ages faster, Alice or Bob?