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Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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Regardless of what I think about MongoDB the database, this man seems like a good leader based on his honesty. Showing this much vulnerability in public isn't something CEOs usually do without a public scandal.

I'm curious if this guy is a professional manager or grew into this role as a founder. Because this sort of communication doesn't strike me as the sort of thing that would come out of the keyboard of an MBA or career manager.

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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post #9

I'm not a CEO, but a working dad. I find that I have met little resistance when I get up to pick up my kids at 5:30 or refuse travel (video chat is cheaper than airfare). Being constantly connected is really helpful. I have my work email and IM on my phone. I can respond to a message in between dinner and bath time. I don't think I'd ever accept a job that didn't let me get away with those things.

You'd be surprised how many places I've heard of that would give push back on that.

They tend to be small startups that haven't had to "grow up" yet.

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.

More like:

TL;DR: Wealthy man chooses to be less wealthy to be with his family.

Which is not something you hear often. I'm sure the guy could have moved his family across the country. However, the kids would have lost their friends, his wife her family. Instead, he stepped down to step up for his family.

Would YOU give up a CEO salary? I'm not sure I would.

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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It's interesting how the mainstream media keep screaming how sexist geeks are for not "accepting" women, but at the same time totally ignoring each and every issue any member of any not-unprivileged group has. All the while I (a self-professed geek) am wondering how my coworker manages both working 9-7 5days a week and being a dad to his 2weeks old twin daughters...

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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Regardless of what I think about MongoDB the database, this man seems like a good leader based on his honesty. Showing this much vulnerability in public isn't something CEOs usually do without a public scandal. I'm curious if this guy is a professional manager or grew into this role as a founder. Because this sort of communication doesn't strike me as the sort of thing that would come out of the keyboard of an MBA or…

A quick gander at his Linkedin shows about 2 decades of management experience. Either way, CEO's don't usually voluntarily step down at all unless they're retiring, so of course a statement like this would be unusual. He's making a wise move to get out in front of potential scandal rumors by making a post that essentially says that he wants to spend more time with his family. A perfectly understandable move, even for a career manager.

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

#29
post #9

I'm not a CEO, but a working dad. I find that I have met little resistance when I get up to pick up my kids at 5:30 or refuse travel (video chat is cheaper than airfare). Being constantly connected is really helpful. I have my work email and IM on my phone. I can respond to a message in between dinner and bath time. I don't think I'd ever accept a job that didn't let me get away with those things.

You'd be surprised how many places I've heard of that would give push back on that. They tend to be small startups that haven't had to "grow up" yet.

I haven't gotten push back on those sorts of things, either. However, people still assume that my wife is a stay-at-home mom (she's not) and they talk about women balancing careers and family, but rarely men. The daycare generally doesn't talk to me about my child because they assume that is my wife's area of responsibility.

If you want to make it easier for my wife to pursue a career, you have to make it easier for me to take care of our daughter (without me quitting and becoming a stay-at-home dad). The sort of thing I am talking about is allowing a shorter work week, giving more vacation time, giving family leave that doesn't involve using my sick leave allowance, and so on. Above all, people need to understand that children (usually) have two parents. These things need to become normal.

Re: Why I am leaving the best job I ever had

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post #27

I predict a society where men, women, couples work until age 60-70 and then retire and have children (assuming medical advances).

Why not have children when you're 25, then work from 45 until the end of your life?

So, live on debt until you're 45? No thanks.
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