TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.
So true.
Why I am leaving the best job I ever had
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#12TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.
While it is true that he had a choice, let's not belittle the difficulty of the decision. This isn't just about "some job". This is choosing to give up one passion to pursue others. But yes, I agree (and I think he would too) that he is lucky to be in a position in life where he can actually choose.
I am indeed incredibly lucky to be able to make this choice.
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#13TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.
While it is true that he had a choice, let's not belittle the difficulty of the decision. This isn't just about "some job". This is choosing to give up one passion to pursue others. But yes, I agree (and I think he would too) that he is lucky to be in a position in life where he can actually choose.
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#14At some point, after basic needs are met, every working person is forced to answer the following question with respect to the toll work takes on his or her family: is it worth it? It takes courage to say "no" and make a clean cut. Kudos to this gentleman for doing what his family needs him to do.
I recently confronted a similar situation (though the stakes were vastly smaller when viewed externally). I am moving from being a full time employee to a contractor where I can control my hours and spend time with my children as they grow up. At least that's the plan! I've always been of the opinion that once you have X dollars (for some definition of X, which fluctuates), time is worth far more than money. This opi…
To me that X is the amount needed to just survive, maybe a little more. Right now I'm working far more that I'd like, that is, making far more money than I need, since I'm far from being a big spender but I love having time for studying or for long walks at the beach (my most expensive vice is in fact studying, which is far cheaper in my country than in the US). It sucks that in practice there's no way to work less than 40 hours a week, and less than 11 months a year, save for being unemployed (for quite a few reasons, becoming a freelance would not improve that for me).
Right now, with my savings, I could expend 2 or 3 years without working, but there is an implicit blackmail (companies don't hire you if you have been unemployed for too long) that prevents me from taking a long sabbatical.
However, like you, I still recognize that I'm lucky. Some people don't have the option of having even a month without a job.
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#15TL;DR: Wealthy executive has freedom to choose to not work.
From the press release:
"Max Schireson, the company’s current CEO, will become Vice Chairman and remain with the company full time after transitioning the CEO role."
He's not leaving, just taking a different (less time-intensive) role.
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#16Amazing post from someone who's done amazing things and has an amazing life. He's also done a great job of highlighting the different expectations and demands between men and women in the workplace. This reminds me of someone else who changed directions in life but received a surprisingly large amount of criticism. (http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ellen-huerta/why-i-left-google...) I have the suspicion that Schireson will not get the same amount of criticism that Huerta received when she wrote her article. But in any case, it will be interesting to see how Schireson's post will be received.
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#17Earlier quoted context omitted.
I recently confronted a similar situation (though the stakes were vastly smaller when viewed externally). I am moving from being a full time employee to a contractor where I can control my hours and spend time with my children as they grow up. At least that's the plan! I've always been of the opinion that once you have X dollars (for some definition of X, which fluctuates), time is worth far more than money. This opi…
To me that X is the amount needed to just survive, maybe a little more. Right now I'm working far more that I'd like, that is, making far more money than I need, since I'm far from being a big spender but I love having time for studying or for long walks at the beach (my most expensive vice is in fact studying, which is far cheaper in my country than in the US). It sucks that in practice there's no way to work less t…
Do companies really discriminate if you've been unemployed for a few years, even with good reason?
I've never heard of that before, and would be interested in knowing how common it is.
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#18Earlier quoted context omitted.
To me that X is the amount needed to just survive, maybe a little more. Right now I'm working far more that I'd like, that is, making far more money than I need, since I'm far from being a big spender but I love having time for studying or for long walks at the beach (my most expensive vice is in fact studying, which is far cheaper in my country than in the US). It sucks that in practice there's no way to work less t…
Do companies really discriminate if you've been unemployed for a few years, even with good reason? I've never heard of that before, and would be interested in knowing how common it is.
Yes many of them do discriminate against those that are unemployed whether it be forced or on purpose. I took a 11 month sabbatical a few years ago and there were many interviewers that just wouldn't believe that I purposefully stopped working. I kept my college habits after gaining my first 'career' position which allowed me to save up a bunch of money. Working in horrible environments and extremely stressful jobs caused a bad personal situation (where questions way beyond burnout such as "why am I even bothering at all" started to be common every day) that I just had to get away. I spent a small portion of the saved up money to do "nothing." Looking back I should have done more things with my time but, as always, I can't go back and change it.
Sometimes certain people just need a real break. I think 2 weeks of vacation is complete bullshit and the main reason why so many Americans are miserable, and misery loves company. So many people live day-to-day, week-to-week that they just can't even imagine those of us that are responsible with our money and savings. In the end, I honestly believe they were just jealous they would never be in a position where they could just walk away from everything. It sucks, but I found a job after it and I was 100% honest with everyone when asked why I took the time off. I had nothing to hide. It took a week and a day of full time searching/interviewing to find a position with a decent company on the way up even during the recent recession. I'm glad those interviewers "cut" me from their list of potential hires because I wouldn't want to work with people like that anyway. I still want to be my own boss, but I'm not there yet.
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#19It's easy to make choices like this when you have enough saved up that you don't even have to work another day for as long as you live.
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#20Earlier quoted context omitted.
To me that X is the amount needed to just survive, maybe a little more. Right now I'm working far more that I'd like, that is, making far more money than I need, since I'm far from being a big spender but I love having time for studying or for long walks at the beach (my most expensive vice is in fact studying, which is far cheaper in my country than in the US). It sucks that in practice there's no way to work less t…
Do companies really discriminate if you've been unemployed for a few years, even with good reason? I've never heard of that before, and would be interested in knowing how common it is.
> "even with good reason?"
Some do, but even the ones that do not have no way of knowing if your reasons are "good". "I traveled the world to discover myself" can mean "I actually traveled the world" or "I'm unhireable and trying to plug gaps in my resume in hard-to-verify ways".