I... don't have much of a saving. I save just enough to take a year off to learn Android and move toward that field hopefully soon. During that year, I've worked my ass off with girls mostly doing pick up artist kind of deal. I have a few friends are really prominent in this circle. Since my funding is drying up, I've given up on improving my pick up skill, I've attain a decent level right now, but for now I'm workin…
Ask HN: Life advice for 40yo Web Dev, single, $500k savings
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#13Move to South America or Asia and live off your savings for the rest of your life. Unlimited time for hobbies!
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#15Where are you located? And how many languages do you speak? Here's a very specific plan: Move to Barcelona. Once established there, try to find a job with either Computacenter, or Sellbytel Spain. They are usually always looking for people with good computer skills and that speak at least 3 languages (or 2 if you don't speak Spanish). They have a very nice office atmosphere, and a lot of cool people from other countr…
The thing is: I find employment very boring. I could never sit on my ass and do stuff for a company. And I usualy dont click with people who are employed. I dont like all the stuff these people are into. I have absolutely no interest in talking about politics, sports, gossip, gardening, family and whatnot. Im interested in girls, startups, coding, philosophy...
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The thing is: I find employment very boring. I could never sit on my ass and do stuff for a company. And I usualy dont click with people who are employed. I dont like all the stuff these people are into. I have absolutely no interest in talking about politics, sports, gossip, gardening, family and whatnot. Im interested in girls, startups, coding, philosophy...
We share similar interests. What did you do to get better with girls? What did you read? what steps did you follow? It is commendable that you did that
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#17I... don't have much of a saving. I save just enough to take a year off to learn Android and move toward that field hopefully soon. During that year, I've worked my ass off with girls mostly doing pick up artist kind of deal. I have a few friends are really prominent in this circle. Since my funding is drying up, I've given up on improving my pick up skill, I've attain a decent level right now, but for now I'm workin…
Yes, I met a couple of guys from the pick up community. But I had to travel to meet them and they where not very dedicated or experienced. They where impressed with my skills as I was way better in attracting girls then them. And it was nice for me to have company. But all in all it was not enough to build a friendship. They where much younger then me, we had no mutual interests apart from girls and they where not re…
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We share similar interests. What did you do to get better with girls? What did you read? what steps did you follow? It is commendable that you did that
If you give me some contact information, I can send you some infos on that.
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Yes, I met a couple of guys from the pick up community. But I had to travel to meet them and they where not very dedicated or experienced. They where impressed with my skills as I was way better in attracting girls then them. And it was nice for me to have company. But all in all it was not enough to build a friendship. They where much younger then me, we had no mutual interests apart from girls and they where not re…
I hope that you can start to see women as people with whom you can form meaningful relationships, rather than seeing them as "girls" that you need to "pick up".