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These are fair points. I've met Patrick in person and used to follow patrick.net a while ago (>4 years ago), but the discussion threads appear to have gone downhill a bit. But as someone else pointed out, there are some FAQs there that provide a useful counter to the conventional wisdom. Also it looks like Patrick now has a book out you can buy on Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/Housing-Trap-Buyers-Captured-Yoursel…
You make a good point. The site is off putting, but it's worth it to spend a little time investigating. I'll check out the link that huherto gave me and maybe take a look at the book. > It's also a very illiquid purchase, meaning it's difficult to sell and you need it to appreciate ~7% just to make back what you paid (that's because of Realtor(tm) commissions). Indeed. Realtor commissions are a huge drag. I do somewh…
You reduce the cost of a mortgage by making a larger down payment, especially if you pay more than 20% in cash. You also want to avoid 'points' (which are just more interest) and to get the lowest interest rate you can. (A very good credit score helps a lot.) If you go for a variable-rate mortgage, read the fine-print very carefully; you want to make sure that the rate can't go up more than a reasonably small amount or more often than a reasonably long period.
You should also consider a lot of the non-purchase costs involved in home ownership. I wish the commissions had been the most significant expense I faced. Remodeling, repairs, improvements, decorating, re-decorating, and general maintenance added up to a large multiple of the commission I paid over ten years. And living in NJ, my property taxes have rising to nearly as much as my mortgage payments after a decade! I had never planned for any of that when considering what I could afford to buy.