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Can you really get banned for "insults/porn words in a title" on your website? Could you provide the email they sent you? That sounds so strange.
The problem is that advertisers don't want their brands associated with that kind of content. In order to keep advertisers happy, Google needs to police for content wrt to ads. It's a different set of rules than things like search results or YouTube.
I had the same problem with another site and I was scared to get in more troubles since I had another one banned. So I just disabled google ads on it.