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People that marry as virgins have a much lower chance of divorce[1]. If you think that stable families are a good thing for your society to have, then you have to reject "sex positive" modern culture and value virginity. Coincidentally, the family structure of the west has rotted since the sexual revolution of the 1960s[2]. Maybe if all those damaged children of divorce had a say in the matter we'd return to traditio…
I think your point is quite possibly the greatest example of religious thinking I've seen for a while. Perhaps the family structure is just as rotten as it always was but now we don't lobotomise our depressed wives, pile them up with valium and beat our kids to shut up about it. It's no longer acceptable to put up with shit and abuse and unhappiness is the greatest thing that has happened to the western world.
"Over the past two decades, the use of antidepressants has skyrocketed. One in 10 Americans now takes an antidepressant medication; among women in their 40s and 50s, the figure is one in four."
http://well.blogs.nytimes.com/2013/08/12/a-glut-of-antidepre...