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It feels like ssldump has been abandoned and is horribly out-of-date. Is anybody maintaining it these days?
I use ssldump all the time; I don't think it's actively maintained, but it's not like it's broken. (The author of ssldump is one of the chairs of the TLS WG).
Last time I used it (quite a few months ago) it wasn't recognizing about half the fields in the SSL negotiation. It wasn't useless, but aside from its decryption-capabilities[1] wireshark had it beat because it could recognize and parse nearly all the fields.
[1] Wireshark might have that, but I haven't checked. I like to keep diversity in the tools I use.