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> I have two questions to respond to this - how did people do all of these things before the facebook platform? What is stopping you from doing these same things? 1) They used other services (e.g. Evite) which had the same effect 2) Nobody uses those other services anymore (okay, I got one evite from the one friend who refused to use facebook...and then somebody created the event page on facebook and all the party pl…
I feel like that is a false choice. The only options are to either not do anything and be 'butthurt' or use facebook? What about relationships with people? What about carrier pigeons? What about personal servants? All of those things are able to do what you're complaining about, they just take slightly more effort. I guess it's to each his own - is your support of a terrible, invasive company more important than your…
And it's not about my convenience, it's about not inconveniencing my friends by demanding that they remember that I'm a special snowflake who won't use the dominant communication platform of the day, and I must have my special needs attended to by using older, more inconvenient channels each time they want to send out a mass party invite.