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Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

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Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

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I'd be interested in how it differs internationally. The US must be one of the countries least comfortable about black humor.

[cultures which have gone through the worst seem to have the blackest jokes. Israel and Bosnia leap to mind, though much of eastern Europe has something similar going on]

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#13

I'd be interested in how it differs internationally. The US must be one of the countries least comfortable about black humor. [cultures which have gone through the worst seem to have the blackest jokes. Israel and Bosnia leap to mind, though much of eastern Europe has something similar going on]

Usually starts same day in the UK. We like our dark humour.

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#14

I'd be interested in how it differs internationally. The US must be one of the countries least comfortable about black humor. [cultures which have gone through the worst seem to have the blackest jokes. Israel and Bosnia leap to mind, though much of eastern Europe has something similar going on]

Usually starts same day in the UK. We like our dark humour.

Indeed. Your neighbors are much the same.

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#15

These kind of jokes are a time honored coping mechanism. I can remember that it wasn't long after the shuttle disaster in 1986 that I first heard the "Head & Shoulders" joke.

"What did Christa Mcauliffe tell her husband before getting on the shuttle? You feed the kids, I'll feed the fish."

Was the one I remembered. I also remember walking into my 5th grade class and finding the teacher crying. She'd applied for the spot on the shuttle, and had made it through several rounds of the selection process.

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#16
Humor can be painful because there's a grain of truth in every joke.

For example, think about some of the jokes that are considered crass and offensive in American culture: bits about black people being poor; women being treated as housewives.

While the stereotypes are false, they relate to deep-rooted societal problems. Income inequality is still associated with racial inequality. Women are still underpaid and underrepresented in some industries.

Political correctness is not noble. It's a form of cowardice, a band-aid that prevents us from using humor as a vehicle for thinking about uncomfortable problems.

The harder an issue is to joke about, the more it requires jokes.

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#19

I'd be interested in how it differs internationally. The US must be one of the countries least comfortable about black humor. [cultures which have gone through the worst seem to have the blackest jokes. Israel and Bosnia leap to mind, though much of eastern Europe has something similar going on]

Usually starts same day in the UK. We like our dark humour.

Given the weather; all your humour happens in the dark...

Re: Social Psychologists: 36 Days After a Tragedy, Jokes About It Become Funny

#20

Humor can be painful because there's a grain of truth in every joke. For example, think about some of the jokes that are considered crass and offensive in American culture: bits about black people being poor; women being treated as housewives. While the stereotypes are false, they relate to deep-rooted societal problems. Income inequality is still associated with racial inequality. Women are still underpaid and under…

One could also argue that your examples of crass humor normalize these stereotypes, and therefore perpetuate them.

If I were to constantly make jokes about how black people were all burglars and rapists, and women should spend all day in the kitchen, at some point I might blur the line between irony and implicitly endorsing the generalization.

I don't claim that I haven't made the types of jokes you describe, but at the same time, I don't consider it "cowardly" that some find such jokes categorically offensive

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