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Me too. Forty minute drive from Oakland to Menlo Park.
I would be troubled by the thought of spending 80 minutes each day trapped in a steel cage. That's 400 minutes per week, or about 300 hours per year just sitting in traffic. Even if SV were the best place to be an engineer, it's hard to imagine it being worth sacrificing 300 hours per year. A 10 minute commute is 25% of that, which is 75 hours per year, which is still a lot. But for me, there is a huge psychological…
Currently I have a 20 minute pleasant bus commute to work, and I wouldn't go back to that commute. For me, it wasn't worth it.