Sorry, but repeated insistent assertion doesn't convince, compared to the many, many published sources which define and use it differently, and how I've observed it used over many decades, including in primarily academic/policy sources dating to
before the era of internet forums.
Some examples of credible 'fiat money' definitions:
Oxford dictionaries: "inconvertible paper money made legal tender by a government decree"
WordNet, Princeton: "money that the government declares to be legal tender although it cannot be converted into standard specie"
Financial Times Lexicon - "Paper money or coins of little or no intrinsic value in themselves and not convertible into gold or silver, but made legal tender by fiat (order) of the government."
American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language, 4th Ed. - "Legal tender, especially paper currency, authorized by a government but not based on or convertible into gold or silver."
The legal decree has been an necessary (and usually primary) part of the term for a long time; here's "The Shorter Oxford English Dictionary on historical principals" in 1933:
https://archive.org/stream/shorteroxfordeng01litt#page/693/m...
"fiat money, U.S. money (such as an inconvertible paper currency) which is made legal by a fiat of the government."
It seems you and tptacek dislike the mild slur connotation for 'fiat money' that's grown in some communities since the mid-late 20th century - concurrent with fiat money becoming the dominant form worldwide. You would like to yank the semantic rug out from under these disfavored goldbugs (and now bitbugs), by retconning/refactoring the term into something more simple, with no allusions to what they dislike.
But with over a hundred years' of use where the legal-mandate was a crucial part of its meaning, and a derivation from a word meaning 'authoritative decree', you're going to lose this, both on the matter of past meaning, and its perpetual evolving meaning – especially that the very idea of non-decree currencies is again becoming more salient.
(You're also misinterpreting fiat if you think it means any decree, as opposed to one from an authority with the power to make things so. Look it up! But that's a digression.)