>I don't see why you assume it wasn't "on the record".
Because it's a nice thing to do when you're dealing with private citizens.
We're talking ethics here, and the thing about ethics is that they can essentially be boiled down to "don't be an asshole".
This blog post can seriously hurt someone who never asked for it and doesn't deserve it. Why not be a little bit fair? If you're not sure if it's "off the record", ask. If you can't ask because the party 'muted' you (!!), assume it is 'off the record' - why? Because that's the ethical thing to do.
I look at this author, and all I see is a bully.
It's good that you always have the presence of mind to censor yourself accordingly. Clearly the Googler made a big mistake because he didn't expect somebody to write an entire blog post from some off-the-cuff remarks he made in a chat room.
>Do I think DO should claim editorial control over it?
They don't. They didn't change his blog post. They asked this guy to anonymize his post because it looks like slander and defamation which is against their TOS. That's how I interpret it as well. AND IT'S THE RIGHT THING TO DO!