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Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

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Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#121
Well based on the fact that you posted this question you've already figured out one of the most important things about working for yourself and that is.....

Everyone needs to be managed. It's now simply up to you to manage yourself given that you have nobody to answer to anymore (at least in theory).

The next thing is then realizing that there is no one correct way of dealing with these issues commonly faced by entrepreneurs. Everyone is different and therefore everyone will have different strategies or techniques that work for them as an individual. You really just need to read up, get feedback from others (like you're currently doing), and try a bunch of things to see what works for you.

With that said, here are some general rules that I feel apply regardless of many of the variables that exist.

1) Have a dedicated workspace. I lock the door to ensure that my wife and daughter don't interrupt me. I took crap for this early on but as I explained to my wife....when I was still working at my old job she didn't have the luxury of walking into my office and interrupting me whenever she wanted so there is no need for her to have that luxury now.

2) Keep your work space clean. I struggle with this one and it's easy to let things get out of control. I find that when my office is a mess I want to spend less time in there and I'm more likely to plop my ass on the couch and get sucked into non-productive activity. Taking 5 mins to do regular cleanups prevents your desk from building up and getting overwhelming.

3) Create habits. Humans are habitual by nature. Take notes on how you are spending your time for a week and you will notice patterns. Make a schedule every morning and allocate a certain amount of time for the things you regularly focus on every day and that will help you avoid getting lost in something (like reading HN or TC) for hours before realizing what happened. Also, if you have multiple clients/projects that you have to give daily attention to then work on them in blocks of hours to help make the limited time you have to focus un them more efficient. It will also make tracking your time a hell of a lot easier.

4) Remember that things change. Regardless of what it is...it is bound to change. You just need to be cognizant of that fact and be able and willing to adapt. When I started working from home I was single and could work however long I wanted to, sleep whenever, etc. Now I'm married with a daughter and life just doesn't work like that anymore. My schedule obviously had to change in order to effectively incorporate the new changes into my life. I just had to adapt and go through a new period of trial and error to see what worked best.

Good luck working through it all and just remember to regularly schedule some time to review where you are spending your time and how you can improve.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#122
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If these are the core issues for you try working at a coffee shop or university library. Usually these tend to be interruption free zones. You might also try out one of the shared office spaces in your area They most likely understand your "transition" situation very well and can give you a desk for a day just to try it out.

> or university library. Usually these tend to be interruption free zones. My university's library was quite loud, and had a university-owned Taco Bell inside of it, complete with cashiers yelling out names of people to pick up their orders. Top-100 ranked by US News...

"I'm just saying, what works on planet Gelgamek isn't necessarily goin' ta work for the rest of us here, on Earth."

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#123
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Agreed with testosterone... however: Snacking is not a "bad habit". It is a healthy eating mode, especially if you incorporate exercise in your routine. Caffeine, OTOH, is bad for you in our generic context. HIIT is a good way of doing cardio work (because it results in a greater turnover rate of free testosterone) but weight-lifting is best. Target bigger muscles, core exercises. Do super-sets if you don't want to s…

In my informed opinion snacking is indeed a very bad habit and it is not in any way a healthy eating mode. It's contrary to all of human evolution and there are objective measurements that show the body needs rest from eating to heal and regenerate critical systems. That's why intermittent fasting is such a proven benefit to health in people who have enough to eat. Source: http://www.marksdailyapple.com/meal-timing/

You cannot eat and absorb all necessary nutrients in 2 or 3 meals. It is much better to divide them in 4-5 meals where your body can digest and use the various nutrients.

Without even talking about vitamins, fiber or healthy fats, let's take protein as an example as testosterone was the topic: Your body's protein absorption has a limit (it isn't not very straightforward and linear, and depends on the type of protein). How much protein can you gulp in 2 or 3 sitting to make a healthy man "keep his muscle mass" and how much of it will be absorbed vs. stored or excreted? What if you're building muscle? What if you're regularly training?

What part of our evolution favors fasting? Snacking doesn't mean you eat every 30 mins. If you're awake 16-17 hours a day, you can easily divide your 4-5 meals with 3-4 hours apart. This keeps your metabolism going. Especially if you're exercising.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

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Been working from home from the end of 1999 on and off up until the middle of 2012. 1) This http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGg1567fzTY (almost posted anonymously). Deal with it :) 2) If you have a family or a partner. Just because you are at home does not mean "can you just put on a wash". Build rules into engaging with the family. You are working. You are not to be disturbed. If you choose to 'come out' of your offi…

5) Get a dog :) ... Oh and she's very good at solving technical issues. Sounds mad, but sometimes just talking about a problem to her makes it work for me (and makes me look less stupid when I have to discuss the problem with work colleagues) Not mad at all. The advice to talk with your dog on technical projects and general problem solving goes for cats. At least you don't talk to your deceased cat (I know I do). He…

In my postgrad days I had two cats. I used to practise my presentations on them. They found it amusing and I could work through the irresistible temptation to talk a character out of Wacky Races so that I could concentrate properly on the day.

I now have a dog. Dogs are good for fresh air and exercise too and you meet other humans too.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#125
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Have a separate work space dedicated solely towards working. You don't play there, you don't eat there, you work there. It's important to have boundaries when working from home.

The dedicated work-only office was my most important productivity enhancement. It helped me prevent burnout (where I'd just work every single hour), and it also helped my spouse understand when I was "at work" and should be treated thusly. As an added bonus in the US, a dedicated work-only workspace can be eligible for a Home Office tax deduction.

In the UK, you can offset the costs of the office space against tax - proportioned heating and lighting etc. But if/when you sell the property you need to be aware of possible Capital Gains Tax liability on the office space.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#126
This happened to me as well--back in 2007 I watched the entire Ana Nicole Smith trial and then death! I came to understand that I need STRUCTURE to carry out my work and I cannot do that on my own and not form home...so I announced to everyone that I had taken a full time job! I actually got up a 7.30pm, showered and leave the house to go to a coffee shop to work at 9am. Once I started I could not just back out of it--people would think I was just CRAZY. Eventually I found more people like myself and pretty good co-working spaces which allowed me to keep a fixed schedule and socialize.

Nowadays I am required to work at the client's site. When I am offered to work from home I simply turn the opportunity down...unless I actually have nothing big to do in which case what's the difference.

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