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Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#81
All you need to know is here[1]. It's called the "The Art of Self Discipline" and Brian Tracey is probably one of the best examples of self-discipline.

Don't listen to this once. Listen to this Once every three days. If you manage to put in your life 1/10 of what is discussed in this audiobook, you'll see radical changes taking place very very quickly.

I listen to this at least 1 every month by now, while running. I have bought the audiobook two years ago. I still listen to this and keeps me up-to-speed when I feel like not doing things I should do.

[1] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JjEDr7enw-c

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

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I have to challenge the premise that most of the responders have taken, which is that working on a daily schedule is "better". On the contrary, I find that my work habits are a lot like yours -- and I think that's a good thing! Sometimes I will be possessed by a coding demon and crank out work for days (weeks?) on end. Other times I will putter around watching TV or brainstorming ideas. For me the whole point of bein…

Obviously, every person is different and I applaud the fact that you've found a method that works for you, but I vehemently disagree that routine is the enemy of imagination and insight.

I worked in the ad game a long time and I never once knew a designer or illustrator that relied on inspiration to get the job done. It's all process.

Our society seems to romanticize the lives of artists and treat them as somehow "blessed". However, I think science is coming more and more to show that creativity is far from an inspired activity. It's mostly the result of a lot of hard work and problem solving. Both of which require a person to show up and work.

Reading a book like Mason Currey's "Daily Rituals: How Artists Work" is very enlightening because it illustrates just how shockingly routine and boring the lives of many famous artists really are/were.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#83

Many people have already recommended exercise, but I would advise you not to jog or lift high rep. Why? It's repetitive and time consuming. It also doesn't do anything for your testosterone level. If you're a guy, you have to keep your testosterone high and that means short burst of high intensity exercise. That's the #1 priority. It will increase your willpower and ability to cope with stress. It'll also lessen the…

Nice advice and one of the best among all replies.

Could you please elaborate on fish oil (why and did you experience any effects if not taken) and vitamin d3 (again why and what happened if you omitted it).

Caffeine as regular stimulant sound tempting but isn't the risk of slight depression higher especially in hard times?

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#84

I have to challenge the premise that most of the responders have taken, which is that working on a daily schedule is "better". On the contrary, I find that my work habits are a lot like yours -- and I think that's a good thing! Sometimes I will be possessed by a coding demon and crank out work for days (weeks?) on end. Other times I will putter around watching TV or brainstorming ideas. For me the whole point of bein…

Obviously, every person is different and I applaud the fact that you've found a method that works for you, but I vehemently disagree that routine is the enemy of imagination and insight. I worked in the ad game a long time and I never once knew a designer or illustrator that relied on inspiration to get the job done. It's all process. Our society seems to romanticize the lives of artists and treat them as somehow "bl…

I agree with you and I want to add your point with a video I found on HN (I guess it crops up at random times). http://vimeo.com/58918963

John Cleese talks about creativity and how you need to create a space and time for it.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#85
post #83

Many people have already recommended exercise, but I would advise you not to jog or lift high rep. Why? It's repetitive and time consuming. It also doesn't do anything for your testosterone level. If you're a guy, you have to keep your testosterone high and that means short burst of high intensity exercise. That's the #1 priority. It will increase your willpower and ability to cope with stress. It'll also lessen the…

Nice advice and one of the best among all replies. Could you please elaborate on fish oil (why and did you experience any effects if not taken) and vitamin d3 (again why and what happened if you omitted it). Caffeine as regular stimulant sound tempting but isn't the risk of slight depression higher especially in hard times?

Fish oil and vitamin d3 is so important that it's impossible to elaborate everything in this comment. I used to have a bigger regimen but have cut down to these 2 plus sodium r-lipoid acid.

1. Most modern livestocks are raise on grains and soy. Their meat do not contain enough omega-3, a simple fact. Farmed fish's omega 3 content varies depending on their diet.

2. Many people have the misconception that the skin can synthesize vitamin d3 from any kind of sunlight. Not true. Glass blocks most of UVB and only let through UVA. So sitting in a windowed office won't work. Some of us live in cold places and wear clothes that cover most of our skin on the rare occasion that we do go out. The skin needs UVB photon to transform 7-dehydrocholesterol to vitamin D3 in a 2-step process. It gets even more complicated when you take into account the level of melanin in your skin. Not only that, only certain spectrum of UVB carries sufficient energy to photolyzed 7-dehydrocholesterol. So that means your skin has to be exposed to sunlight at certain time of the day.

The thing to understand about these deficiency is they occur very slowly. The process is very insidious because the brain and body is great at adapting. It comes to accept the abnormal as normal. Depressed people come to accept their condition as normal and unchangeable. Most of them don't even realized they're depressed. They can't imagine a different reality or mental state. Just like people who procrastinate can't see how someone else can be so productive. When you're socially isolated, it turns into a downward spiral where no one can help you.

About stimulants, I don't like using them. But I've come to accept that they're necessary. We humans just weren't made to sit in one place and stare at a screen for 12 hrs+ a day/5days a week.

So far I haven't felt any crash from the nicotine patch. Caffeine, definitely, but the crash is nowhere near the level of Rx stimulants. Caffeine crash is much more mild and tolerable. I'm not convinced on the safety of modafinil.

The point to all this though, you need to keep your testosterone high so you can pull yourself out of a hole if you do fall into one. People who work 12hr+, racing on stimulants everyday, eating bad food and not getting enough sleep will inevitable burnout.

If you live right, there's never a desire to drink or take any substance to "relax".

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#86
Suggestions from my own experience:

1) Set written goals: quarterly, monthly, weekly, and daily. I have a pre-printed "form" that I populate with my goals. Then I check them off at the end of a period (day, week, etc.), grade myself, and make notes about what worked, what didn't and what I learned. Save these in a binder so you can see your progress, or lack thereof.

2) Use Pomodoro or HoursTracker or some other app that works for you. Observing how many (few) hours I was productively working was eye-opening.

3) Reward yourself. The idea is, work shouldn't stretch on "indefinitely" - then you have little psychological incentive to complete.

4) Separate your workspace from your living space, even if it is only a desk that you use solely for work.

5) Use StickK or some other form of commitment contract.

6) Use SelfControl or other internet-limiting app. Watch out for blocking Google URLs though - block youtube, and you can end up blocking Google Drive.

7) In the beginning, overinvest in setting up systems and tracking to discover what really works for you. Getting a good system going will easily pay for itself in efficiency gains.

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#87
post #14

Been working from home from the end of 1999 on and off up until the middle of 2012. 1) This http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KGg1567fzTY (almost posted anonymously). Deal with it :) 2) If you have a family or a partner. Just because you are at home does not mean "can you just put on a wash". Build rules into engaging with the family. You are working. You are not to be disturbed. If you choose to 'come out' of your offi…

For anyone who is not aware regarding number 5; http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rubber_duck_debugging

I was just thinking of that...

Also here: http://www.codinghorror.com/blog/2012/03/rubber-duck-problem...

Re: Ask HN: How to increase self-discipline as a self-employed person?

#89
post #83

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Nice advice and one of the best among all replies. Could you please elaborate on fish oil (why and did you experience any effects if not taken) and vitamin d3 (again why and what happened if you omitted it). Caffeine as regular stimulant sound tempting but isn't the risk of slight depression higher especially in hard times?

Fish oil and vitamin d3 is so important that it's impossible to elaborate everything in this comment. I used to have a bigger regimen but have cut down to these 2 plus sodium r-lipoid acid. 1. Most modern livestocks are raise on grains and soy. Their meat do not contain enough omega-3, a simple fact. Farmed fish's omega 3 content varies depending on their diet. 2. Many people have the misconception that the skin can…

Thanks again for all this advice, very helpful!
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