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Facebook is probably using an algorithm that picks from among the friends that the user has interacted the most with. At least that's what I would do if I were implementing it. They already use such an algorithm internally to detect if your account is compromised (i.e., if the set of friends with whom you communicate changes sharply at some point.) Given that Facebook might be doing this, it is likely that the top fe…
We can try it ourselves. Just log in and go to http://www.facebook.com/deactivate.php The 5 that show up for me are people I recently friended (unfortunately all dudes)
Facebook doesn't want you to deactivate your account.
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#22That's a really good way of empathising with your users. I've seen "sitename will miss you!" type messages, getting social connections involved would be a hell of a lot more persuasive.
That is, unless your Facebook "friends" are actual friends with whom you have many channels of communication...it just seems tacky and manipulative to me.
They're reminding you that you have friends on Facebook. Tacky would be them telling your friends to convince you not to abandon your account.
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#23I wonder if it wasn't a coincidence that all the people who Facebook says will miss him are girls (well, and one restaurant)
Facebook is probably using an algorithm that picks from among the friends that the user has interacted the most with. At least that's what I would do if I were implementing it. They already use such an algorithm internally to detect if your account is compromised (i.e., if the set of friends with whom you communicate changes sharply at some point.) Given that Facebook might be doing this, it is likely that the top fe…
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#24Note: Even after you deactivate, your friends can still invite you to events, tag you in photos, or ask you to join groups. If you opt out, you will NOT receive these email invitations and notifications from your friends.
It's a bit unclear in what sense your account is actually deactivated.
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#25I wonder if it wasn't a coincidence that all the people who Facebook says will miss him are girls (well, and one restaurant)
So, its definitely giving high priority if you both are tagged in the same picture irrespective of the fact if you are really good friends with them or not. One of the friend tagged in a pic with me was added about 4-5 months ago, whereas my other friend I have know her since 2001, but on facebook since 2004/2005. 70% of my friends added are from the 2004 - 2007 time period.
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That is, unless your Facebook "friends" are actual friends with whom you have many channels of communication...it just seems tacky and manipulative to me.
Manipulative? Yes. Tacky? No. They're reminding you that you have friends on Facebook. Tacky would be them telling your friends to convince you not to abandon your account.
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Manipulative? Yes. Tacky? No. They're reminding you that you have friends on Facebook. Tacky would be them telling your friends to convince you not to abandon your account.
It's tacky because the psychology they're attempting is disingenuous. It attempts to form an association between their self-serving message and your friends' pictures.
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#28It bothers me that they won't let you actually delete your account.
http://www.facebook.com/home.php#/group.php?gid=16929680703&...
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#30Evil with style.