Earlier quoted context omitted.
It took 120+ days for my ebay account to get deleted, but thankfully I could delete my paypal in only a few weeks.
The 120+ days thing with ebay is allegedly because they need to make sure any outstanding deals are closed and accounts settled. Of course that is absolute bullshit, it took them 120+ days to close my account and I had not used it for over 4 years at that point. They actually emailed me telling me that they were closing the account due to inactivity. They gave me 3 or 4 months to log on before it would be killed, so…
I cancelled and about three months later I was "compromised". At that point I reset the data to random values, deleted my "ebay@example.com" email alias, and just resigned myself to forgetting about it.